falling in-love virtually

I think you should give it a try after you've taken security into consideration. I've fallen in love with someone virtually and i'm still thinking about her up to now. She's a cute girl from Turkey. We've spend lots and lots of hours chatting. I even think the relationship we had online if far better than the relationships i had in real life. Give it a shot, all relationships doesn't start that serious anyway.

Yes, I have fallen in love virtually about 6 years or so back. She was a girl from Palestine and we talked for hours. She wanted to marry me but it was not possible for her to come down to my country and I was not in a position to go there. Finally, I lost her. I don't have her whereabouts any more.

That must have been hard for you to feel that way. I never experienced that at all. When I learned how to surf I did have some chat mates before but it did not go through the phase that I am attracted with my chat mate. it was just for fun and friendship.

I personally have never done so, but a friend of mine has twice now. The first time, he moved here after talking with her online for a few years. Swapped pictures, talking on the phone all the time, the works. They were engaged for awhile, but then he started scoping out other girls, treating her like dirt, stuff like that. She wound up leaving him for..dun dun dun, another guy she met online. I've only met the guy once (he came for a visit with his father) and I hope he turns out to be a better match for her. But we'll have to see how he is once he moves. xD

Not me, but I have talked to someone here at mylot who got obsessed with someone so deeply he was gonna marry her the moment they'd meet. The girl wasn't as transparent as he was and she denied him of the facts about herself, her address, her number, and all those times, the guy was so in love with his own idea of what she was like. The obsession lasted for 3 years and counting and I think it's really gone out of hand, feet, waist, shoulder....name it, you have it.Lol!

Hi Pearlyjeane, May i know how do you defined virtually in-love? If I get you right, does it mean getting in-love to a person you haven't seen yet in person but have communicated only thru internet? Or to be in-loved to a person who doesn't really exist?

That is really, really sad and disgusting. Forget about stopping, just don't go there in the first place. You could be dating a pedophile for all you know.. Make real friends. Don't be an unconfident loner scared of making friends so you turn to the internet to get them.