how do you feel after having a baby
By sush123
@sush123 (211)
India
January 21, 2009 3:39am CST
i am waiting for my baby not there are only two months for my delivery and i imagine all the time about that how would it be and how would i be feeling after giving birth him/her.
definitely it would be specail feeling for mother after having a baby
sweety
3 responses
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
21 Jan 09
If you have baby vag it's more sore down there than anything. A nice ice pack feels awsome + pain relievers. The minute you deliver the contraction pains ect is instantly gone. This is the way to deliver if you can, even better is having an epidural that works. If you do that make sure they tape it good, if you move a tiny bit it may not work very well as it did w/ my first.
Now a c-section is HORRID! It hurts to sit up, hurts to move period. If you could stand all day and never sit life would be grand. The worst is getting out of bed. I swear it took me 10min to ease out of bed and biting my tongue the whole time. You don't feel decent probably til 2 months out and normal for a few months after that. I had a c/s with my last and that is one of the big reasons he's my last!! I refuse to go thru that pain ever ever ever again!
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
22 Jan 09
No problem! :) Good luck with everything!
BTW... don't let hubby get away with not helping with feedings. Mine was ok for a few weeks helping with the wee hour feeding but then he did the standard "Oh I didn't hear the baby cry" and ignores the baby so you just get up and do it. I've heard many moms say that's happened to them too.
@rainmark (4302)
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22 Jan 09
Hi 3snugglebunnies, i do agree with you with c-section. I had a c-section when i had my son. After the operation you feel to much pain and you not allowed to eat in 3 days. Everytime you stand, sit, and laugh it always aching. I suffer the pain for over a month lolz.I am thinking if im going to have another one after my c/s.
Happy posting and myoting.
@rainmark (4302)
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22 Jan 09
Hi there, i have my 13 months old son now. What i felt after i gave birth him is something special, my change and your first priority and attention is for the baby. There's something inside your heart that you can't explain. It's a fullfilment of being a woman and im so very happy and lots of joy in my life and also you feel afraid thinking if you become a good mother to him/her but as long as you do your best as a mum you will be alright.
Happy posting and myloting.
@Tinna_He (300)
• China
22 Jan 09
my daughter is ten-month-old.when she was lying on the operating table with loud cry.i couldn't believe that is my baby.i was so excited and also feel too tired.when she slept beside me,i always stared at her.LOL."it is my baby."i told myself many times.That time,i hope all my friend come to visit me and share the happiness with me.Till now, i stay with my daughter every day and she sleep with me.when i saw her sleeping ,i feel so happy.If that time ,my husband stayed with me,i can say i am the happiest womman in the world.LOL.The same to you ,hope you have a cute baby.