proposing a girl
By ujjwalbatra
@ujjwalbatra (446)
India
January 21, 2009 6:09am CST
hi there,,,
well friends i have a little problem regarding proposing a girl,,,there is a girl who lives in front of my office and i like her,,,i dont know her ,she also doesnt know me,i have only seen her and i want to have friendship with her,,,tell me some tips so that i can start a coversation to her but one thing i need to keep in mind is that she is a stranger to me and i am to her,,,so please suggest me some tips so i can start a converstaion with her and be her friend,,,,,
5 responses
@ujjwalbatra (446)
• India
21 Jan 09
well how can you just go and introduce yourself to a stranger buddy,,,if she rejected that she dont wanna have frndship wid me then
@harisaran (2)
• India
21 Jan 09
Just say hi... And start speaks... Then ask for coffee... some money spend for her... And Enjoy to speak with her....
@ujjwalbatra (446)
• India
21 Jan 09
well would try like that lets c wat happens bro,,,nd i am from india and u know in india girls are quite restricted
@soundfreak22nd (475)
• Malaysia
21 Jan 09
yeah. go to her and introduce yourself as a gentlemen. i think she would like that.
@ujjwalbatra (446)
• India
21 Jan 09
well by that i mean that gals in india are not open up like if you stop them in the middle of the road and say hi and they will respond they will just neglect you bro,,,,tell me how can i behave like a gentleman bro
@ujjwalbatra (446)
• India
23 Jan 09
well thanks bro your reply really boosted my level of confidence now i will surely do the thing like the way you have told me thanks bro
@soundfreak22nd (475)
• Malaysia
21 Jan 09
i don't see by stopping her is a gentlemen thing to do. i think she thinks that you are only blocking her way. if you happen to walk in a different direction for instance, try to have that 2 seconds eye contact, smile, and nod your head. try to get her smiling back to you. let her walk through her way and do not stop her. now, that's a start. don't rush into it then if you say that they are quite restricted. show her your body language and let her know and understand that you are interested to be her friend. later on when things goes well such as exchanging numbers and a little conversation, thennn you can show her that you are really really interested in her.
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@neededhope (1085)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Just go up to her and say introduce yourself. And say that you walk by there every day when she's working and you've been wanting to get to know her. And ask her if she feels the same. That's being bold but I think bold sometimes works the best.
Or you can just send her flowers and tell her you would love to meet her and get to know her as a person. She maybe flattered but at least it's worth a shot.
@ujjwalbatra (446)
• India
23 Jan 09
well thanks for the comment but as i have told earlier that girls in india are bit restricted they will not reply if you just stop them in the middle of the road or things like that instead of that the flowers would work just fine
@yashassid (208)
• India
21 Jan 09
I think it doesn't really matter..you don't need to prepare a speech or anything.
My fiancee went with her heart.
I said, " You know I love you so much and you mean the world to me. Will you marry me?"
and of course he got down on one knee, you HAVE to do that...most romantic thing ever.
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Just say HI. You can start talking about simple things like the weather or how her day is going. This is what I would do if I wanted to talk to someone and start a conversation. i know it may seem hard but make it simple and keep going with it. You never will know unless you try and make the effort. I hope this helps and happy mylotting to you, have a great day! 
