I was so angry!!

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Warning... this is a rant! Yesterday I had a WIC appointment early in the morning. For those who are unfamilair, WIC stands for women, infants, and children. It's a government program that gives pregnant and nursing moms, infants, and kids up to the age of 5 help with their groceries. They give you checks to use for milk, eggs, juice, certain cereals, and a few other healthy foods. They also give you baby formula for infants under the age of 1. Each of my kids has been on WIC since birth to help us afford formula. Typically I get them off at the age of 1 because I can afford the rest, but formula is expensive! My youngest just turned 1, so we weren't going to get formula anymore, but since I still have 2 small kids in the house, and the price of milk isn't going down much, I decided I'd stay on it a little bit longer. So my appointment yesterday was to recertify, something we have to do every 6 months so they know our financial situation has not changed. I woke up extra early so I could find all the paperwork I needed, and get my little boys ready and myself ready and go. I had to put my last $10 into gas for my car to get me to the other side of town (about half an hour drive) for this appointment. My appointment was at 10. I arrived a little early, and waited and waited and waited. The small waiting room was full of unruly kids who's parents seemed totally unaware of what their children were doing. Most of them were eating donuts and drinking soda (the kids, not just the parents!). Well, I just always get annoyed when I'm at a place like this. When I see someone come into a government aid office wearing a leather coat and carrying a designer handbag, and their child has a leather coat and designer boots, and they spend the whole time talking or texting on their cellphone, I can't help but wonder why exactly this person needs government help! So, after about an hour and half they finally call me in only to tell me I don't have enough of my husband's pay stubs. His pay rate has just changed this week, and it states on his check that he's just gone from salary to hourly, it also states how much he makes per hour and that he works 50 hours a week. But that wasn't good enough for them, they needed more paystubs than I'd brought with me. I could understand this if he'd always been hourly, but the stubs I brought in showed that up until this past friday he'd been getting paid a salary wage, so obviously you can just do the math to see how much he earns each month. Well, in the end they said there was nothing I could do unless I could bring in more paystubs or proof that I'm on some other government program, which I'm not. So I left empty handed! So of course I was fuming. Not so much that I didn't get the WIC, but because of all the trouble I'd gone through just to get there and have it turn out to be a waste of time. Our income level is pretty much border line for government help. We're able to survive without it, but we are eligable for it. I was half debating applying for food stamps again since my husband's wages have just dropped, but after yesterdays ordeal I'm thinking a few extra bucks a month truly isn't worth the hassle I'd have to go through to get it! Going through such ordeals (whether I end up empty handed or not) is really not worth the stress! As I said, just sitting in the waiting rooms for such programs is enough to stress me out! Okay, sorry I had to rant... I just had to get it off my chest, now I feel better. Have you ever wasted your time for something that didn't seem worth it?