My love story that never ended..............
By raidangz
@raidangz (19)
India
January 21, 2009 8:30am CST
Dear MyLotters, few years back I met a girl on the internet. In few months time we got very close and were madly in love. We met twice before she left for Denmark to pursue higher studies. Few days later she broke up with me citing family reasons. But as I could not take that, I began writing her mails to persuade her. But she never replied. I requested her, begged her but she never cared. One day we met online on yahoo messenger and began chatting. she told me that she was still in love with me but then she would not be able to return in my life as her family was opposed to our relationship. Then again she called up one day and cried telling she wasn't happy to see us fall apart. Sometimes she would say that she wanna return back and sometimes she would say that she wouldn't be able to return..It continued this way for few months till i finally decided to dump her..I changed my number and also got new email addresses for myself. But one day I found her instant messages on yahoo messenger whr she asked for my phone number. But i told her bluntly that i was not gonna provide her my number and that we should not talk, chat or exchange mails anymore. Telling her so, I was in tears but I took up the courage and dump her. From then we never got in touch. Do you guys think I have done the right thing by dumping her? I still love her and want her but then i felt the relationship was going no where and therefore gave up...let me what you guys have to say on this..
2 responses
@liikais (43)
• Latvia
21 Jan 09
good true story.. i think you must visit her and get together again or you will remember this pain all rest of your life..
@raidangz (19)
• India
21 Jan 09
I even thought of doing that..visiting her parents and make things better. But then i realized that i never can come to terms with her mom..her mom's too bad..You know, she hated me cuz I was opposed to her going abroad. But i was against her leaving for abroad cuz she couldn't find accommodation. Even her college didn't provide her accommodation. And even my girl was not eager to leave after we met. I tried every way to arrange accommodation for her but in vain. In every hostels her application were in waiting list. I don't know if it was me who got in between my girl and her education. I actually didn't want her to get into trouble. and that was only what i was trying to make sure..I wanted to stay there till she leaves but I had to return as I had my comp science papers. before I returned my girl was against her mom cuz of her attitude but later she kept telling that her mother was right & that I was wrong. after she left for Denmark, I had a chance to chat with her mom on yahoo. she told me that i was ruining her life stopping her from going abroad. she added that she can pursue her studies there and also earn some money doing part time jobs. But i reminded her that her daughter was in her final year of graduation. and that it would have been better if she had gone after completing her grad as she could have gained a Master degree in two years adding her two years of education have been wasted just because of her decision. we continued arguing till i finally used foul language against her and logged out. You know it was her greed for money that she did that..
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
i think there would never be the two of you together, what i mean is the word "US".
but then again i think if you can't keep her and she can't keep you as a lover then why not be friends in a way, since you just met on the cyber space. your relationship i think happened so fast that you didn't even think of it that you'll gonna end up that way.don't get me wrong it's my own point of view.
try to exchange emails again, phone calls and messages. talk it over, that might make a difference for the both of you.
aja!good luck!keep smiling!
