Daughter-Mother Drama Questions

Unfortunately at that age it's quite normal for her to be acting out and getting her feelings hurt and being oversensitive. I was awful when I was seventeen, sometimes to extreme. My mother and I would argue all the time and I would just want to get out of there. 12 years later, what was I thinking? Lord, I'd love to go back and be a teenager and live at home again. I thought it would be easier to be on my own. She'll soon notice that being at home wasn't so bad after all and the two of you will get closer and her feelings won't be on her shoulder all the time. Right now she is dealing with all the puberty stuff and for females it's between the ages of 16 and 19 that their moods get all screwed up for some reason. Good luck and God bless

Most of the time I chuckle at the drama between the two of you. Yesterday was no exception. When she asked me to support her and I did not then I really had to laugh when she said "fine" in that godawful teenager tone and went and covered her entire body under her covers. There are way too many days when our child has a bug up her rear. I have no idea what her problem is or how to solve it

you didn't say how old your daughter is, but if she is pre-teen or teen age, get ready for more before it's all over LOL. I raised two daughters........and survived to tell about it, and by the way they survived it too LOL I usually would just state it how it was going to be and walked away. Arguing with them will you get you nothing but a headache.

i've found there is lots of drama between most mothers and daughters. i say most because i have 2. grown. when the oldest was a young even before she was a teenager family members set up a situation that caused us to never get along. since she married and left home, we get along ok but cant stay around each other over a week at a time. i know its sad and usually its me that begs forgiveness when we clash. but my other daughter (theres 8 yrs between them) its always been almost like we are twins. even when we argue, which is very seldome,we make up in 5 mins. very strange. i love them both dearly and they get along great. they love each other dearly.

My daughter doesn't live with me she has her own place. She does call often and sometime we have a little dramatic conversation. Mostly if it something she doesn't want to hear she will not call me because she always say that I speak whatever is on my mind. And that is the truth, I don't try to sugar coat it, I will tell her how I feel and let it go at that. I can always say that I will tell you whether you agree with me or no. My way of handling the drama is to tell it the right way but tell it. You have done your part and you can be at peace with yourself. My sister tells her son how she feels about certain things. After that she will say now I feel better and what happens now is on you. He is also grown up and living away from home.