i know i have moved on,why the thought of him..
By wwjd_2dons07
@wwjd_2dons07 (38)
Philippines
January 21, 2009 8:39pm CST
my story was last 2007.I came from a 4 year relationship.I thought He was the man for me...We almost build our future,plans for the family...I thought no matter how many fights we had we will still end up together...but suddenly not..It was me to be blaim that I committ mistake in our relationship..He was very angry...and suddenly we broke up through txt..not even talking personally..I thought the feeling is gone...I thought so...I manage to move on..they say that finding someone can HELP to move on...I met my now husband, fall in love and the rest is history...The thing here sometimes I still dream of My EX...Im not thinking of him or even to bother talk to him...we have patch up things before and funny thing is he got married ahead of me.my wedding is dec...he got married november 2007.why because the girl he married got pregnant...im not jealous...im happy for him..i dont know now much about him but THING is why a thought of him????
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5 responses
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
hi :) i guess its normal that we still thought of our ex even if we already move on. we still thought of him if he was happy or not. even in my own experiences i still dreamt of my ex. let's not be hypocrite but we know that the feeling is still there. you just cant forget a person who has been a part of your life for a couple of years.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
One noticeably mistake that you committed in your life was to jump in to another relationship to find love again. Many do mistake that when they jump into another one so soon they would not feel the pain of the past love. I think when you break up with a person you should allow yourself to heal on your own and learn how to love yourself first then only when learned to love yourself can you love others more meaningful and personal. Jumping in another realtionship just only masks you inner pains and now that the effect of that is gone it is showing up again in your life.
Well for now there is really nothing you can do about it I guess. Both of you are married to another person. For now, what is the right thing to do is continue on loving the person you are with since they are the one that truly deserves your love and care.
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
22 Jan 09
All I can say is 4 years is a long time to be together and sometimes you think of someone you care about or once loved or dream about them. They were a big part of your life for a long time. Its natural don't worry too much about it. The feeling may never really be gone, but that is how life works sometimes, you live, you love, you learn.
@prisamara (58)
• Brazil
22 Jan 09
It's so hard to forget... I'll quote a phrase that says all: "Don't say you forgot a big love. Just say you can to speak about it without to cry"
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
23 Jan 09
For four years, you have established a bond wherein you feel what the other person feels. When you were still in the relationship, I would guess that you and your ex experienced coincidences like picking the same color of clothes,saying the same words at the moment, picking up at the phone to call each other at the same time. It might sound funny at first but you'd realize this is because you shared the same brain wavelength. this kind of bond didn't disappear. perhaps you thought of him because he thought of you. In one way, he might be lonely and needing somebody to talk to and the person that came to his mind was you.
