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I am thinking of joining a volleyball team that meets up every Monday night from 7-9pm. This is very exciting for me! I haven't had much of a life since my twins have been born, don't really have a lot of people I socialize with (offline that is) and don't really ever go anywhere, so joining this team really means a whole lot to me! The problem is that my husband typically works until 9pm on Mondays. Now he's already spoken to his boss about this and is capable of getting out at 7pm MOST Mondays, but there are still a few times he may have to work till 9. This coming Monday would be one of the times he works until 9. What I was thinking was, on the nights he's out at 7, I can just take the kids with me and have them just sit there until he comes to pick them up 15-20 minutes later, not a huge deal. But what about the nights he works until 9? The baby is used to going to bed at about 7pm, and will be horribly miserable if he stays up too late, not to mention the 3 older kids have school the next day and shouldn't be kept up so late. They're usual bed time is between 7 and 8pm. I don't know anyone who could watch the kids for free for those couple hours, so my options are to hire a sitter or keep them with me and cope with them possibly being miserable from exhaustion, which my teammates may not appreciate. If I have to keep them with me, the 11 year old will be there as well, and he's very good about helping me out with the little ones. He can make a bottle for the baby, or push the stroller around to try to calm him. Then my other dilemma is, for the next few weeks my oldest is still in basketball, and he has practice from 7pm until 8:30 on Mondays. Now this is 1 of 2 practices per week, plus a game. When my husband is out at 7 it's not a big deal, I will drop him off before I go to my game, and hubby will pick him up later, and I'll just have the 4 younger kids, and the twins are very good about helping with their little brothers too. But on nights I have to keep them until 9, there's a conflict with my oldest son's practice. Even if I just hired a sitter, I'd still have to find him a ride home, which is possible. But I wouldn't be able to keep the little 4 with me for 2 hours while my oldest is at his own game, I'd need him to be there to take care of the little ones, the twins are only so good for so long. I guess my only option is to hire a sitter for the nights hubby has to work until 9. (It took me actually writing this all down to realize that, lol) Boy, us moms sure do have to jump through some crazy hoops just to have some form of a life, huh? Would you go through this much trouble for something you really wanted to do? Have you had to do it before?