Do You Know the Difference Between Happiness and Joy?
@gtargirl (5376)
United States
January 22, 2009 9:29pm CST
So, I ask you this question because I would love to read your thoughts on it. So, to me happiness is very temporary. It's an emotion, I guess, that would depend on something external that would bring a smile to my face. Joy is eternal. That feeling that can make you smile (at least in your heart) when life's trials come a knocking. What say ye?
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@wifeofharvey (1156)
• United States
23 Jan 09
To me joy is a choice. It is my sense of peace and contentment in the middle of whatever turmoil is going on in this world. It is the safety of being a child of God. A trusting of my heavenly Father.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
23 Jan 09
you can make arguments either way happiness and joy are synonyms,
whereas in one sense happy is internal but joy can be internal or external, like a joyful noise.
but really they are synonyms meaning the same.
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@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
26 Jan 09
I see it exactly the opposite. I think that happiness is a peaceful positive ongoing (hopefully!) way of being, while joy is euphoric and shorter term. I think truly it's all good, though! I think that how we classify things in terms of names is not as important as having those wonderful feelings, whatever we call them!
But this is just my opinion. Cheers!
@thorgrym (675)
• United States
23 Jan 09
Happiness is easier to misspell...
:-D
Actually, I hadn't really considered them to be different. I think that the words are used fairly interchangeably. You make a good point, though. Happiness can easily be spoiled by bad news or hardship, while joy is the thing that can get us through those trials. I could be unhappy that the weather is bad and I really wanted to spend the day outside, but that does not make me less joyful.
@thorgrym (675)
• United States
23 Jan 09
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@joyfulpraise (46)
• United States
23 Jan 09
hey girl, I would like to coment on your discussion in this way. I think that when you experience happiness in your everyday life, that you are learning a way to accept things as they come,and it's like you said joy is eternal.it's a type of happiness that is built in.When my 4 daughters each became a mother I gave each one a new private name.Darla is love (a fruit of the spirit.) Rebecca is Peace another (fruit of the spirit). Samantha I named Joy (another fruit of the spirit), and Pamela I named kindness another (fruit of the spirit). I gave each one a book with that name on it so they could learn about that subject. They are good examples of their name.thanks for the discussion.
@joyfulpraise (46)
• United States
23 Jan 09
I just wanted to say one more thing. I'm sure you'll recognize it. troubles may last for a day...but joy comes in the morning.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Jan 09
I never looked at it like this but I think you are right. It takes alot to have and keep happiness but joy can come from within.
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
23 Jan 09
I like to look at the different nuances of words too - especially those which through the passage of time begin to be used synomonously.
Happy orriginally meant "lucky" and/or "wise"
I tend to use it to express contentment
Joy comes to us from the latin word gaudere (rejoice)
and it makes me think of exubriant pleasure - butterflies in the stomach and beyond.... Joy also makes me think of being radient even during times of trial and persecutions.
@Margajoe (4747)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
Oh my that is a difficult question.
Yes, I see your point.
joy=Freude
happiness=Gluck
happy=satisfied/zufrieden
Just looked up my German ,English dictionary.
(Don't remember where I put my English , Dutch one)
Conclusion:
"To jump for joy."
Joy would mean spontaneous. Joy would be the feeling you get from happiness.
Happiness is being lucky and satisfied. With that you feel joy.
How's that?
Aha, I think I got it.hahaha!
Groetjes
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 09
What more can I say as you have already aptly described them both - joy is what's within that lights up the environment outside & around us no matters what happen while happiness is most of the times dependent upon the good things that has happened outside to make us feel good inside.
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
23 Jan 09
As English is not my native language, I do have some difficulty telling these two words apart. So I look up the dictionary, and it says joy the emotion of great happiness. Haha, So I guess you're right.Wish your life is full of happiness and with real eternal joy. I dont if I use the words correctly. lol