i got a job!

@bombshell (11256)
Germany
January 23, 2009 3:13am CST
yes i got the job! as a wife before doing mylot,hubby always ask a favor to give him a massage. its my job every night.so do you call it a job or a responsible as a wife
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14 responses
@ElicBxn (63394)
• United States
23 Jan 09
are you getting paid?
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
yes i did this everynight while he watching tv.but i dont mind because you should know what happen next "sometimes"
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@ElicBxn (63394)
• United States
23 Jan 09
probably why I'm single, ya think?
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
huh? you are single?
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@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
23 Jan 09
well for me it is not a job it is our responsibility as a wife, we sometimes do the responsibility but sometimes we refuse especially when we are tired and need also to rest because we are only human and we are not well all the time.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
agree and i dont mind doing this every night as long as he is happy.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
23 Jan 09
its a job of love!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
23 Jan 09
now ya know!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
ohhhhhhhhhhhh yeah! did not think of it Lakota
• India
24 Jan 09
Well if ur doing this everyday...its more like a job just to make ur husband happy...n do whatever he ask u to do..may be im wrong..coz I'm still unmarried..ya if after marriage my wife ask me to do that, I'll do only if she really like!!!!!
• India
25 Jan 09
Ma'm when ur enjoying, then where question of job or responsiblity arises...its on ly love...nothing but pure eternal love!!!!!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
24 Jan 09
yes i do enjoy it and no probs with me.yeah you should marry now so that you can experience like what i have experience massaging each other
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
well i dont know whats run unto your head bombshe but... its kinda confusing why you call it a job if your not going to any office, shop, cafe etc..... i thought you have a real job not a job as a wife...
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
well kinda confusing at start but if you say so......
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Jan 09
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
24 Jan 09
this is a job because i´m doing this every night.this is my job before opening my computer.
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
23 Jan 09
Hello bombshell! Wow! you got paid that's great. My husband did not ask me yet but when he's here with me, I gave him massage sometimes. I don't think it's our responsibility to give him massage but it's our responsibility to let them feel love and comfortable..
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
24 Jan 09
thanks:)its not money,the price is i have my own computer and i can surf endless.
• United States
25 Jan 09
hahaha! you're right..plus the great feeling of touching our husband..hehehe
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
23 Jan 09
If you are keeping up with the house everyday the massage is not your only job. Can you imagine what a mother/wife would make in a year if they were to be paid for all of the duties performed? I would only have to work one year because I would be a millionaire at the end of that year. Yes I consider it a job, even if you don't receive cash. Some jobs offer incentives rather than money. Consider yourself a woman that has a job for an incentive.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
yes i do all the job in the house plus massage to hubby everynight
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Jan 09
That is wonderful to hear. I think it could be called a job if it is not recpected. I do not think we should expect these things from one another if the favor is not returned, It is a job and duty to me.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
agree and i am sure his taking care of me in a diffeent way of massage
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
23 Jan 09
won't call it any of the two it sounds like a lot of pressure to me i'll just call it some TLC tender loving care i'm sure you both enjoy it i do that to hubby's shoulder and back sometimes i enjoy it because he sleeps better after and he won't snore :)
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
i do it every night while he is watching tv and yes i like it because i can see him that he likes my massage
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
23 Jan 09
[i]Hi bombshell, I love giving a massage to my husband after his long hours working! As a wife, It is our responsibility to take care of our partner and vice-versa and it's one way of taking care of them! Enjoy![/i]
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
agree.thank you maám che
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
23 Jan 09
What ever you do for the happiness of your hubby is part of your wifely duty. Once married you are resigned to be his 'obedient servant'. So you are duty bound to make him happy for neglecting your 'duties' can be disastrous. There will so many waiting list out there waiting for the job!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
hahaha zandi thanks for the great response.yes i do my duty and he should do his duty for me.
@youless (112358)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Jan 09
You can regard it as whatever you like. As long as it can make your husband happy, it will be alright:) I can even call myself as a slave:) I love China
@littleowl (7157)
27 Jan 09
Well I would call that being an obedient dutiful housewife who loves her husband very much...hugs littleowl
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
27 Jan 09
ohh littleowl thats very sweet commentts thank you.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
23 Jan 09
This is a fine job to make your hubby happy.You indeed a responsible wife.Thanks.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
23 Jan 09
i am melting bhanusb.thnaks for the compliments