Past or Present Relationship?

for me..i will choose the present..if i can stand to be with my ex in the first place..then i would not dare to look for another guy..i dont want to go over the pain i had with my ex..the difficulties and the stress of being with him..past is past..i should not look back anymore..i deserve to be happy and it's very unfair to my present partner..

I want me and my ex to join that show. Hehe.. I want to know if she still loves me, if not then i'm happy for her and her husband who she used to cheat against me hehe. If she still loves me, then i can have my revenge lol! Kidding! Well that's quite an interesting show and since i'm single now, i guess i have no guilt feelings if i see someone being cheated on that show hehe.

It depends, I can only cross the bridge when I'm there. I can never categorically state that I could do this and that especially if it concerns my feelings because I'm an extremely sensitive person. I will have to think about that when I am already in that particular situation. Cheers and happy mylotting.

to be the first to response.. will i wanted to be fair. i would choose the present. if there is something i need to love i would love the present one, why? it is just simply because why should i look for a new one if i still love my ex of course i will leave the past behind and live on the present that i know it would be my happiest time that someone came to me and can walked on the road that i am taking. but the choices still tough some cant really decide who's to choose because of the past that kept on the heart.

Look u add ex to ur past love or relationship it means u have excluded him or her from ur romantic life and it is better if ex stays ex. Yes i know no one does really forget his first love but with time the memories start getting blurred and the present looks far more brighter than past ever looked. So it is always best to be with present one and i dont know which the one in MTV chose but i would choose my present one rather than past one.

I've never watched it. I don't have MTV where I live. I would stay with my present boyfriend. When I see or I'm around my ex's I just don't get the feeling of excitement. To me, they are an ex for a reason. In one way or another, they screwed up and hurt me, or I screwed up and hurt them. And it's something I don't want to get back into. I wouldn't throw away a wonderful relationship, where my boyfriend makes me feel beautiful and he has more love for me than any guy has ever shown, or given me. Anyway, have a great day!

That sure does sound intriguing and fun to watch! Are some of the participants choosing their ex's instead of their present relationship? I think it would be fun to watch but would really suck if my boyfriend dump me for his ex-girlfriend especially when I saw how it happened! -cherry

I have actually seen that show before. It is pretty interesting and sometimes hurtful to see how people treat their current relationships and cheat on their partners with their ex. Even though you can't always control your heart, I think it isn't right to cheat. You should always break up with your current partner if you are not feeling them anymore. I just think it is the right thing to do. Anyway, I guess I can't really speak on it because different situations cause for different views. . If I were on the show, I would definitely choose my current boyfriend because he treats me right and he respects me while we are together. My exes have all only shown their true appreciation for me after I have left them. Why do people always want what they can't have? and appreciate you when you are gone? It's crazy. lol.