Has anyone ever tried to get you fired from your job?
By puddytat101
@puddytat101 (657)
United States
January 23, 2009 8:13am CST
Hello!
Has anyone ever tried to get you fired from work? Did they succeed? How did you resolve the issue?
I've had people try and get me in some serious hot water. My only guess is that they wanted my job, for whatever reason. I can't think of any other reason. Maybe some just enjoy making someone else miserable. It's certainly not a glamourous job!
For 6 solid weeks, I was in my boss's office nearly every day. Accusations had been made that were simply preposterous! Everything from tearing up machines to lunging at them. I can't help but laugh now but at the time I was seriously perturbed!
Then one day, it just stopped. I'm not sure what happened. I think the boss did some spying and figured it all out. Phew! That was a close one! lol
I look forward to your responses. Thanks!
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9 responses
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
23 Jan 09
Yeah I lost this cleaning job a few years ago because of this girl that did not like me. Or at least I thought that is why I lost my job. See they started the boss asking me a lot of weird questions about my boyfriends past and I only worked on the weekends. Then like a week later they said they needed to let me go. I got mad because I needed the job at the time but when I look back on it you know everyone gets what is coming to them. I live near this chick now and I see that things do come back around so happy mylotting to you and have a great day!
@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
23 Jan 09
Thanks for your response!
Tis true, everything does come back to you eventually. I'm happy to hear some cosmic force is at work to bring subtle justice. I've really hated some of my coworkers but I've never tried to get them fired! I just don't get it. It must be the challenge I guess.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
it is never fair that somebody do something so somebody gets fired from his job. it is always best that we consider and remember the fact that the person also needs to earn in order to keep a decent way of living.
although we may also say that nature has a way of rendering us justice, it is better if we live in a world where the attitude of everyone is live and let live.
let us allow everyone else to have their fair share of this world. after all, if we work on our own, the fellow whose face we cannot love, works on his own, too.
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@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
24 Jan 09
Hi there!
Thanks for your response!
You mentioned a decent way of living. Funny you should say that because most of the time, that's the one thing they want to take away from you. They don't care if you're starving and had to stand in the cheese line. It would actually bring them great satisfaction and they would marvel in their own glorious triumph.
It really isn't fair like many things in the world. If only people would grow up huh?
By the way, that is really a neat picture you have. Is that your family or friends? You are completely on the opposite side of the world! That's pretty cool!
meow & ciao!
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Jan 09
I had a dispute with a co-worker outside of work. He went and accused me of harassment at work. I resolved the issue by telling the truth. Since I hadn't been guilty of workplace harassment, they really couldn't do anything. It was a bit scary though. Obviously we're not friends any more. lol
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@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
26 Jan 09
Lol! Ok, but my fur still frizzes at the thought!
Thanks!
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@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
24 Jan 09
You go girl!
I'm actually proud of you for standing up for yourself. I don't think I want to know why you harassed a man, but I'm sure it was for a good cause. LOL
Anyhoot, thanks for your response! By the way, you don't look so menacing in your picture. (chuckle) He must've really been a miserable guy. Was this dispute of a personal nature? Just being nosey!
meow & ciao!
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
26 Jul 09
Hello puddytat. It is really bad of someone who wants to get another fired from his or her job. I think that people of this kind are immoral and inhuman.
I am lucky that I have not met one such person though there are certain colleagues who are jealous of me for my wonderful job that is praised by real boss.
I wish you to stand firm in your job with good luck, dear friend.
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@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
6 Aug 09
Ahhh, the green monster has shown its face here too. You're lucky you've never encountered it more. Thanks for wishing me luck! I think people like that just have no life lol.
@phoenix25 (1541)
• United States
24 Jan 09
No one did this to me personally, but my husband has had people do this to him on two separate occasions. The first time, the guy succeeded. My husband would sometimes bring a coke home from work with him from his store and because the registers were closed would pay for it the next day. One day he was closing and he asked the new guy to remind him to pay for his coke in the morning. Instead of reminding him, he told the manager (who loved my husband because he was his best employee at the time) about the coke and accused him of stealing. The guy was being malicious because he remembered what happened and didn't say anything. The guy was trying to get a 500 dollar bonus that the company awarded people for turning in theft reports. The manager was completely mad at the guy for what he did because it was underhanded and he told him it wasn't how he ran his business. The manager refused to let him have the 500 dollar reward. Because he didn't want my husband to be blacklisted for the rest of his life, he told him what happened and my husband just quit so that he couldn't be fired and have theft charges brought up against him...they would have sued him for a coke...that's right, a 1.49 coke.
The second time it happened, my husband was a manager at a retail store and he found out from his district manager (DM) that his assistant manager (AM) at his store was calling the DM and telling her every little thing that he did trying to get him in trouble. His DM absolutely loves him, so she just would tell the AM that she didn't care. She was reporting stupid, petty things anyway. She was doing this because she had wanted to store manager job that my husband took over when he was brought in as a new employee with the company. The funny thing is that the DM had told this woman that she could not be an AM and she would not even let her take the manager's test because she just wasn't right for the job. Anyway, after my husband found out the gloves were off. He eventually fired her because he caught her working off the clock (which is illegal) and told her not to do it but she kept doing it. I was so mad about both of these incidences. It really makes me mad that people have no decency. Who tries to get a guy with a wife and a kid fired for money or personal advancement? I felt sorry that the lady lost her job, but this was a 50 year old woman and she should have been a little more grown up. I think she got what she deserved.
@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
24 Jan 09
Hello!
I can actually relate to what you've said here. My mother has actually been on the opposite side of the fence in a similar situation. She deals with DMs and GMs with a pharmecuetical company. She has had employees want to "take" a product such as a candy bar and coke and pay for it later. Even as short as an hour later.
My mother never ever would let them do that though. She's strictly by the book mangager. She's retired now but she could tell some real doozy stories about stuff like this. I don't recall she ever fired anyone from stealing unless they actually walked out the door with it. One girl did get fired on her lunch break because she "forgot" to pay for chewing gum. It was not an isolated incident though. She had a habit of doing this quite often.
Thanks for your response!
meow & ciao!
@dinos1 (204)
• Greece
24 Jan 09
Well, I am afraid that bad people can be anywhere, always willing to harm you for their personal benefit..
I would suggest patience and better don't try to clash with them directly. If there is something weird you have proof for, you could also bring it up to your boss... Would be better if he knew that something was going on at first, rather than you having to explain to him later with him being furious...
@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
24 Jan 09
Hello!
Great words of wisdom dinos. I ignore these pompous pains in the rear as much as possible. Seems to work for the most part. For some reason, these same people just HATE to be ignored. It drives them nuts! It can be hilarious at times to watch them bend over backwards just to get some attention. I think they are big babies myself. And, yes, I keep a record of every single thing I do at work. I'm not really a big slacker. The busier I stay, the faster I can get outta there! LOL
Thanks for your response!
meow & ciao!
@haiershen (1080)
• China
6 Aug 09
i'm very lucky as i never went through this situation, the place which i had worked often have a good relationship among colleagues at office, we often share our stories with others,eating some snake during listening on our spare times. we worked nearly two years.so i'm very lucky.if i want to changed to a new job, it is because of i'm very tired of doing the sames thing or the salary isn't enough for our daily life.otherwise, i don't want to changed. good luck and have a nice day!
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@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
6 Aug 09
Indeed, you are lucky. You eat snake on your lunch break? Cool! I've tried rattlesnake but didn't really care for the taste. It was kinda neat though, my landlord brought some to me and at first it looked like a plate of hamburger patties!
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
i am happy for you, puddytat, that you have won that life's battle that you went through then. it must have been very difficult from your part to be plunged into deep hot water.
for my part, i never went through the same situation.
mine might run to be a similar one in some respects, though.
an officemate of mine has noticed that i have been getting promotions quite fast. every year, a promotion comes my way.
what she did was to spread humors about me. about me personally and about how i do my work. she convinced everyone that i have been backbiting my officemates and she even manufactured what are those things that i have said.
well, she must be happier still when i was forced to resign from my work because of my son's worsening health condition. i had to take care of him personally 24/7.
i figured that her elation due to this development was really high.
since she can never take over my work because, qualifications wise she'll always be on a different field, i figured that she's just among those jealous freaks who couldn't do any good to anybody.
@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
24 Jan 09
Hi there again!
Thank you for responding to this discussion multiple times!
My apologies for your son. However, I am happy that you can manage to take care of him. It must be hard without the extra income in the household. I praise you for accomplishing this very difficult task that life has thrown your way.
You are completely on cue with the jealous freak thing. They are so jealous that they sometimes drive themselves crazy trying to make you crazy. I'll admit my temper has served me well these days. I've learned to give these people enough rope so to speak. Give them enough rope and they will eventually hang theirselves. I just ignore, go about my job, and they will spend so much time trying to stir things up, that their own work habits become questionable. It can be quite gratifying to see them in the office just once. After that, they usually slack off but with a watchful eye.
meow & ciao!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Aug 09
ah yes she did try as she disliked the idea that i was the only one working in thelibrary that was a senior citizen, and she threathened our boss to quit if she didnt fire me, so the boss said to me she hated to do it but she had to let me go because I was nearly eighty and cou ldnt do the work anymore, just after she had said I was the best worker she had ever had. go figure but she and the eqivalent of a female dog that wanted me gone were aferwards fired for age discrimination and I was truly glad, but I refused to come back. I had had it with them. I had wo rked there for 23 years so why the firing? i could have sued but doubt you can fight city government anyway.
@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
23 Jan 09
Yup. Back when I was in my early 20's a woman I worked with got me fired. I didn't really care because I already had another job in a new town. I was going to quit in a week anyway.
She wanted my job for her daughter. Her daughter took it, but she joined the army without telling her mom. After a few months she left.
About 6 months later she cause some other troubles. Really big ones this time, that got the police involved. The powers that be realized that what this woman said about me was a huge lie and they asked me to come back.
Sorry I wasn't ever going back. I had a better job.
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@puddytat101 (657)
• United States
24 Jan 09
Meow Cat Lady!
Purrrfectly spoken! I would not have went back either, nor do I ever give in to the menaces of society! I've seen plenty of workers get fired just so their "cuz" could have a job. It's sickening really when you think about it. Some people don't have it made without a steady income.
Thanks for your response!
meow & ciao!