Rejections...How do you cope up with it? does it make you a better person?

Im not good at rejections. Thats why im 43 and still single. I do have an 8 year old daughterand i love her but I made some bad decisions that changed ways that i see myself. I dont see myself ever getting married cuz i dont see that women today dont care about whats on the inside. Ive seen women today worry about the body the money or the tool in bed thats it so far. My life has been nothing but heartache and I just dont understand women anymore. I thought relationships were about love commitment and self sacrifice to find love and i just dont see that anymore its sad really cuz i know there are good women out there i just dont know where.

With me it all depends on the situation on how i would take it and deal with it.. In some siuations,I would Take it as a challenge. And in other situations because i have low self esteem, I would take it as im not good enough a failure yadda yadda.. But the good thing baout me, is it would bother me for a day or two but i can let go of things easily,and i can forgive and not hold a grudge aginst anyone so. I think in some situations it betters me,because it might make me want to learn somthing im lacking,or do somthing to better change myself...

Rejections must be taken as a challenge. Because who rejects you, is to be considered first. Did god reject you? No! Never! Whom do you bother then? Every other entity under God's creation can be as well served by your your presence as the person who dares to reject you. It's just a question of attitude, how you treat the matter. Don't let anybody to take an upper hand upon your self. You too at the same time don't take upper hand on some others self. Think positive, these feelings of failures will become the pillars of your success.