Unhappy

Well. I'm glad your'e discussing your problems on mylot, where you are completly anonymous and you can get the best answers from millions of people. Anyways, taking pills is not going to do the trick, you just need some fresh air. So why not go to some restaraunt you heard is popular or a nice movie would do the trick. And for your friends problem, try finding some at the place you work or get in a realationship with your friend's freinds.

Life does seem to go slower when you are unhappy. But, it is good to know that most people go through these stages in life. The one medicine you can try is do what I do. Even though I don't want to go out, don't want to see friends ect, I do it anyway. Conclusion: I forget I was unhappy. Once your out the door, you feel better. It is hard when you just wake up. You don't feel like taking a shower or getting dressed. Normal things are just to much. But, when you train yourself to do it anyway, you feel better. Don't think about not wanting to, just do. By the way, antidepressant did not help me either. This site has a good influence on me, maybe it is good for you too: http://thesecret.tv Free tools for a better life. (so to speak, I really enjoy it.) Take care, and do something! Have a nice weekend.

Don't lock yourself in your house. Go out, do things. I have been having alot of marriage problems lately and I am very depressed. I have been seeing a therapist who saved my life. You have to push yourself to get dressed and go out. You will feel alot better once you are out doing things. Antidepressants take a couple of weeks to start working. I stopped them. I push myself to do things. Once you have your mind busy on something you will feel better.

Have you ever looked into avoidant personality disorder.I recently came across this online and was amazed that there were people that think like I do.I tend to dwell on these things and yes the thought themselves make me depressed I couldn't believe how much better I felt just finding other people who think like this.If I am at work and people are whispering I swear it is about me,I will think about this,try to decide what they were saying and lose sleep over it.I to think people don't like me if they say they are busy when I call,or put me on hold and then come back and say "oh I have to take this call"Hmm I always think the other caller bailed her out so she didn't have to talk to me anymore. I have been on many antidepressants and never found they worked,I am on another medication now that they say works well with antidepressants and the two together are supposed to help.The medication is called abillify,I did not think this would work,the psychiatrist said it would help with those thoughts I have and make it so I don't dwell on things so much.I am happy to say that it has done wonders,it truly has calmed down those thoughts so now I am not focussed all the time on how people don't like me and all the negative things I was dwelling on.By not thinking like that constantly it has really helped put me in a better mood.I have been leaving my house a little more for more then just work.I work in a place where I only deal with 3 people all day because I can never stand to many people at the same time it can be very overwhelming. I hope this helps some,you might want to talk with your doc about taking abillify with your antidepressant maybe it will help you to. Good luck, Fresh air helps but I find blasting my music can lift my spirits to. Jas

hi skaterx,yes i know what is depression.Depression is self problem,guilty feeling. Difficult to talk out from inside totally but flow it away as you think a way. Take a deep sleep in open but warm room even in hot day.keep your self an hour away from crowded and family. As i use to do. I don't know it works on you or not but it help me sometime. Drink water happy day

Laughter is best medicine to all disease so as the depression. It will through the pressure in mind and lightens it and feel happy.