What will you do if you see the person you love with another guy/girl?
@underworld_xygmax89 (181)
Philippines
January 23, 2009 6:37pm CST
Im a person whose so in love right now...
I've just recently seen my special someone with another guy,...
but the fact is that person that I love doesn't love me...
I can tell you my friends!!!
I just couldn't stop loving these person....
and still I insist to think that she might find a better guy than me...
but of course...I've expressed my feelings to that person...
and of course,this person knows that I got a very deep feelings just for these person....
is it right to be depressed?
for just seing my special someone with another person?
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4 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
24 Jan 09
Hello underworld_xYgmax89! It's normal for you to feel depressed and sad especially that the one you love and the girl that you dreamt of is crazy in love with other guy. But you have to let go of that person because if you will still insists on your feelings, you are only hurting yourself as well as the girl you admire. If that will happen to me, I will not insist myself and move on. No need for me to stay with that person because it's no use.
@underworld_xygmax89 (181)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
yup...
your right...
its just that I cant tak these person off of my mind!!!
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happy mylotting!!!!
@smartie0317 (1610)
• United States
24 Jan 09
No, it's normal to feel hurt right now. Try to slowly cope with your feelings. In time, the pain will do away more and more. Eventually, you'll find the love of your life. For now, just be happy for the person. When I see someone I like with someone else, I feel jealous for a time but try to feel happy for them.
@underworld_xygmax89 (181)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
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thanks for the response and for the advice too...
its just the thing I need
!!!!!
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happy mylotting!!!!
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
...yeah i know what are you feeling right now... coz I know how it really hurts to see your love one together with someone else, It can't help lessen the pain, but trying to understand and accepting will help a lot...
...thanks for your message, take care always...
@marshiemallows (1010)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
i think it hurts so much to see someone you love with someone else. i think might heart will get crushed into pieces and i probably would find it really hard to recover especially if he's really cheating on me. however, we should always remember not to judge immediately because what we think might be wrong. so as much as possible, we should try to confirm the things that come into our minds and give the person the benefit of the doubt.
@underworld_xygmax89 (181)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
yup...
it does ...
but i've thought of it lately..
and i decided to let go of her and move on..
of course or my sake and for her too...
but i still cant deny that i love her so much...
i think i could only hug her or kiss her in my dreams!!!
happy mylotting!!!
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
...hey thanks for your message, It's not good that you will be depressed just for that simple reason, yeah right if you do relly love her, why not let her go??/ Be happy for her, and just accept the fact that you are not meant for each other, you can find someone better rather than her...take care...
