is there such a fashion to loose one's virginity at certain range of age ?
By lovesummer
@lovesummer (1162)
Malaysia
January 23, 2009 7:27pm CST
does it happen in your country? here in russia i think most of the teenagers want to loose their virginity before finishing high school. something like that. i think it is funny. they think that is abnormal when one is still a virgin especially after 18. tell us does it happen in your country? what do you think about it?
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10 responses
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
hi lovesummer!
well our country used to be a conservative in terms of the intimacy issue. but nowadays, more and more young people are getting into it. and many of them have started really early. by the time they are 20, they have had several partners already.
in our generation, we were still pretty conservative, although well there were really some lose canons. anyway, yeah, i think it is has become a fad, when people have to lose it at a certain age and if you don't you are no longer IN. it is the values that these people cherish that make them such.
no judgments here. it is their call. it is their choice. but i would advice my children against premarital activities as such.
take care and God bless you! :-)
happy mylotting!
@meresa2girls (88)
• United States
24 Jan 09
I think a lot of it has to do with girls loosing respect for themselves faster. I'm not sure why but a lot of them do these days. I know I personally went through this phase and when I finally woke up I was severly dissapointed in myself but obviously couldn't take it back.
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@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 09
yes i got you, it is like they are outdated if they dont follow the fashion.
good idea for your children, i think it is the best thing if people could wait.
happy Mylotting!
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@meresa2girls (88)
• United States
24 Jan 09
It used to be important in the U.S. but not anymore I don't think. I know my mom was huge on it but I still lost it at 18. Here if you make it to 20 without giving it up I swear people are amazed and shocked. We respect people who wait, it just doesn't happen that often.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
28 Jan 09
yeah i've been hearing this in girls. THey make fun of their friends if they are virgin still and if the girl's too much into friends TALKS, she might go end up with a streetboy too to get f*Ucked up and tell them back tat hey I aint a virgin anymore, then? what happens is the girls talk dirty, Next level of and after not being a virgin and it goes on and on !
@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 09
yeah i know that, some find it facinating if one is a virgin.
thanks for sharing :)
@aristrocrat195 (282)
• India
25 Jan 09
no i think in my country that is india which is very religious and famous in the world for its culture there is no such activity happen in my country as i had seen many teenagers break virginity after 21 only many are like on their marraige day this happens in my country
@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
25 Jan 09
that is something to be proud of
thanks for sharing
happy mylotting :)
@caseycarmen (93)
• China
13 Feb 09
yes,it's pretty much the same case in southern china where i live in,i do feel abnormal being a virgin,even my very conservative sweet heart best had lost her virginity few month ago.i don't know any of my classmate who's still a virgin.even the ugly one.
@sirensanssmile (3764)
• Netherlands
28 Jan 09
In the Netherlands it is weird to find a virgin older than 16 years old. Often they lose their virginity and have a few partners already especially by 18. In my homeland it is still more conservative. It is odd now to find a virgin who is over 21.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
25 Jan 09
On the contrary, our country hopes for a virgin bride. That means virgibity is synonymous with unmarried girls and they are not supposed to lose it before marriage. Things have changed a lot after nowadays though.
@Barry1120 (153)
• China
25 Jan 09
in high school??is early! in my city can't be accepted,,,maybe in college is ok,,,
@rimbayanto (2)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 09
in indonesia virginity does not become a sacred thing anymore. many junior high student (15-16) loose their virginity. i don't know why, but may be it because they thought it's a modern life.