Things that I realized in loving someone so much

Philippines
January 24, 2009 12:04am CST
Love for me is: -We think about it, Sing about it, Dream about it and loose sleep worrying about it. When we don't have it, we search for it. When we discover it, we don't know what to do with it. When we have it, we fear loosing it. We think it is about pleasure and pain but we really never understand what it really means and how valuable it is. LOVE is a short word; easy to spell, difficult to define and IMPOSSIBLE to live without. Love is like crushing your heart into dust but within that particles of dust lay the love that will always be FOR YOU. Sometimes, we forget to value the ones who loves us so much and take them for granted. Sometimes we feel dull being with them. We feel that it is not for us. We feel everything is wrong about the relationship. Its because sometimes we tend to want more. Its normal because humans cannot really be satisfied at all. But in this case, our mind just do not know what to think and our heart just do not know what to feel. Just a quotation, "If you love me, let me know. If not please gently let me go". We have to commit mistake in order for us to learn. Me? I have made a mistake before, I chose the wrong decision and I already have learned from it. As spiderman says, "We always have a choice, we just have to make the right one". Hoping for your comments on this. Thanks!
2 responses
• Philippines
24 Jan 09
I think you are right with that thought.
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• Philippines
19 Apr 09
There are so many Hall mark deffinition of Love... and once you are loving someone you are just so selfless..this is when it's true love that you are giving. You just want that person to be happy and give everything. Yes we do have decisions and they are hard to make. Hard to do and hard to take. It's even Hard to decide when to decide and start doing it! It crushes your heart, feels like an open wound that is dipped into a bowl with vinegar. The funny thing even if you felt this way... you still want to do it again and again untill you find THE ONE...or untill you are tired and just give up.... Love is really complicated and complex.. I have been in pain for a while because of love. I do have a choice to harbor this pain and make me stronger or..stick with this person and inflict more harm on me..but..loving him... Sometimes it's easy to pick the obvious one..but it's hard to do...