Will I marry my girl bestfriend or girlfriend?
@sinnedsejatnom (1311)
Philippines
7 responses
@sinnedsejatnom (1311)
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
Its ok storm.jejeje
Anyways, you're right, our heart is the key.
@AJ1952Chats (2332)
• Anderson, Indiana
25 Jan 09
Neither at this time because you haven't made up your mind.
In fact, your basis for marriage is a very artificial one: reaching a certain age.
There is no certain age to get married, so you shouldn't think something like:
"I'm now 26, so I must get married!"
That is one of the best ways to land in divorce court.
It sounds as if you have two very special friends in your life who just happen to be of the opposite gender of you, and you're probably attracted to both of them.
But for so long as you're asking yourself (and others):
"Which one should I marry?"
it's not yet time to get married.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Jan 09
I totally agree. Now is not the right time to think about that. Are you thinking about it simply because you are 26 now. Spend time with your girlfriend and don't think about marriage unless you think you are truly ready for it.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
I can't believe that you were asking that kind of question..
Well, nobody can't say who you should marry since we don't know anything about how you feel either for your bestfriend or your girlfriend.. You're girl best friend had told you clearly that she will going to marry you if you don't have a girlfriend but since you already have a girlfriend, do you think she still going to marry you??
All I can advice you is that be sure with what you feel.. Think so hard if which is more heavier your girlfriend or your best friend?? Which one of them you truly love and who you would like to be your wife?? Its only you who can answer your own question.. 
@priyochatterjee (1)
• India
25 Aug 10
i think you should marry your best friend.remember 50%of all marrages in usa end up in divorce because people tend to follow their hormone driven romantic instinct rather than cold hard practical logic .your best friend cared about you so much that she decided to wait till you had a girlfriend.if that isnt loyalty then i dont know what is.remember you can fall in love with anybody but you cant make friends with everybody.just think it out for yourself ,if you marry your girlfriend today ,ten years later your relation will be driven more on compatibility rather than pure love.will you have anything in common with her then ?can your girlfriend be your bestfriend ?
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
25 Jan 09
Hello sinnedsejatnom! Well, all I can say is that you can't love romantically both girls at the same time. You must think about it a hundred times. Who has bigger space in your heart? Is it your girlfriend or your best friend? Can you live without your bestfriend or can you live without your girlfriend? I know it's you who can really answer it.
@sinnedsejatnom (1311)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Thanks for the response friend. I'm still confused at this time.
@Youjia1227 (25)
• China
6 Feb 09
Just tell your bestfriend the true that you have had a girlfriend.I think if you treat her as a friend you should not deceive her.Of course if she regards you as her friend,she will respect your choice.Both of you are still the bestfriend of each other.Why to break up the friendship if you are not really treat her as your most important woman?
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@JFinley (44)
• United States
5 Feb 09
I say you stay with your girlfriend. why? because why would you just push her aside because you've reached a certain age. Maybe your best friend was not serious and you dump your girlfriend and you ask your best friend to marry you and she says NO. Does that mean your wasting your girlfriends time being with her? How owuld she feel if she found out you loved your best friend while you were together? I think you need to figure your feelings out and see where that takes you. If you arent planning on staying with your girlfriend, I'd let her know now, because she may have very strong feelings for you.
