Pleasing the People.

I used to be a people-pleaser. I got walked all over because of it, though, and I eventually grew a backbone and learned how to deal with people that would take advantage of your desire to please people.

When someone has been good to me and done something nice to me then I will do the same. With friends and family I try always to be that way anyway. As far as accetance I don't go over the line. I am me and think I am a nice person. I do what I can.

im a realy bad people pleaser, i am the one who appologises in the suppermarket when some one else rams me with there shopping trolly and i deffinatly say sorry far to offten

Good for you! I haven't yet built up the self-confidence to say no to people. I am a teacher but as well as teaching I am expected to fulfill the roles of 3 other people. It means that I am working about 15 hours a day and not sleeping because I am worried about everything that I haven't had time to do. I wonder sometimes whether I was put on this planet to work and be miserable!!