Are you happy with your bf/gf, husband/wife?
By Curlann
@annierose (21583)
Philippines
January 25, 2009 1:01am CST
Do you sometimes ask yourself why did you choose the man or woman with you now as your boyfriend or girlfriend? Or if you are already married, did you ever realized why you said yes to marry him?
I am not yet married because I think it is too early for that. I still want to enjoy life having no big responsibilities. I am satisfied with my life now knowing I have my family, friends and my boyfriend.I sometimes ask myself why I chose him as my boyfriend. What makes me love him more and more.Our relationship sometimes goes on like a roller coaster. If there are happy moments, there are also sad ones.Sometimes we are ok and sometimes we are not. Sometimes we both laugh and sometimes we both cries. But no matter what had happened on the past and still happening as of now, I can say that I am happy with my bf. I have no regrets choosing him among the rest. He is very unique among other guys. He knows how to handle things. He always understand me and finds time to be with me amidst his busy schedule.He is so kind that is why my ultimate goal is to reciprocate it always. He always want me happy and I am really so touch with it. I feel so blessed having him in my life.
How about you? What can you say about your relationship with your bf or gf, husband or wife? Have a nice day to everyone.
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16 responses
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
Well, me and my bf was separated just two weeks from now. Yes, he made me happy but sometimes he made me feel that i'm alone. He doesn't have time for me, he works and works, we dont even had time to go to church together, even going to cinema or a romantic date. We only last for 5 months and i'm the only one who say stop, i dont want with this kind of relationship anymore. I'm happy with my decision, maybe because it's a right decision, yes, it is..
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@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
it's alright friend, i already moved on and i'm happy with my decision..thanks for the comment.. have a great time
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
I am sorry for what happened with you and your bf. Well, I guess that if you feel both of you can no longer work out on the issue anymore, I think its ok that relationship must be stop in order for both of you to think.
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@karenlapniten (83)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
I am very happy with my boyfriend who just proposed to me this month., I have no regrets loving him because he understand me. Even though I have my weaknesses, we complement each other.
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
Congratulations! So good for you. Hoping you will stay that way forever with him. Happy mylotting
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@phoenix25 (1541)
• United States
25 Jan 09
I am happy with my husband. We were just looking at an article featured on yahoo about the 5 things that happy couples do. We did all of the things mentioned in the article, like talk to each other, be goofy together, and flirt with each other. I love my husband because I feel like he is the only person who knows who I really am and really understands me. It's great to have someone that makes you feel like that. We are very similar and have a lot of similar opinions on things, though some differences. We also don't really fight, which I love because I grew up in an abusive home with lots of yelling, crying, and violence. It was my goal to find a partner that I could build a life with and a home that was the exact opposite of the environment that I grew up in. I have done just that and I couldn't be happier even if we don't have a lot of money and sometimes everything goes to heck. The point is that we have made it through thick and thin, good times and bad, sickness and health, and wealth and poverty.
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
I can see that God bless your relationship so much. Im happy for you.
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@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
Of course i am very happy with my boyfriend right now. And i know that we will end up together. Because he is far from my past boyfriends when it comes to attitude. He really loves me so much and the most important is he really respect and accept me for what i am.
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
That is good. Accepting your partner not only on his or her strength but also on his or her weaknesses is just one of the sign that love is true.
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
25 Jan 09
Hello annierose! I was touched with your story and I can relate to it. I am so happy with my husband too. Although it took us so long to meet in person, and we just knew each other through chatting, we though felt that we love each other. When I finally saw him at the airport, it seems like I knew him for so long. The reason why I married him because he is the man I am looking for. Tall, white, handsome with great character. What more could I ask for?
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
Your love story is one of the greatest I've known here in mylot.Hoping me and my boyfriend will finally meet also in person and have happy ending like what happened to you.
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
25 Jan 09
I do hope you and your boyfriend will meet up one day. I will be happy for you.
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@mairuszj91 (25)
• Poland
25 Jan 09
I think we are with bf/gf for to be happy.
We must to do everything to make it happy. The life without the second person is bad, and boring.
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@mairuszj91 (25)
• Poland
25 Jan 09
Because everyone would rather like to be with someone. The people need to meet with other people. We need to have someone who will be love us, help us, etc.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
26 Jan 09
My life has always been like one of those snow globes. Just when you think your life is all settled...someone or something comes along and shakes it up and it's all different. I've grown used to changing everything up and adapting to whatever life throws my way. I love my life and strive to be happy. I was really happy when I was married. When things went bad, I got really sad but my goal was to get happy again. So I did. It's life. It is all up and down. I don't regret any of my relationships for not working out. They were what I wanted at the time and they added to my life. I don't stay in a miserable spot for long. life is way too long for that.
@mag_keizer2007 (1282)
• Canada
25 Jan 09
I saw this and had to write about the love of my life. We have a great relationship we hardly ever fight...unless needed and then we make up and talk about what happened. HE does anything and everything for me. He is a hard working somethings working double shifts just so me and my kids are WELL provided for. My kids have everything they want and ask for...with in reason and I just love him. We both try very hard to make our relationship the best we can make it. We have been together 10 years and they have all been good years.
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Congratulations for having a wonderful love life. I am happy for both of you.
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Jan 09
To be honest, I'm really happy with my fiance. I'm really happy with my choice of man, choice of fiance. Yes, sometimes, we fight and sometimes he gets on my nerves, just like i know i get on his nerves sometimes, but I think that it's normal, especially when two people live together. But at the end of the day, I love him, and I think that he's a great guy. we're both committed to our relationship. We both want to see it work. And that's really the type of relationship that I want to be in.
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@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
Yes, i'm very much happy with my partner.. hubby's been there for me, to give love care and support.. i'm very blessed for having hubby in my life.. we have lots of things in common that's why we really jive.. we have the same taste when it comes to fashion, gadgets, movies, music, interests, hobbies, point of views and many more.. he never fails to make me smile.. he never fails to make me laugh.. uhm.. space isn't enough to describe how wonderful my hubby is.. i would never ever trade my hubby with anyone else.. he's the other half that makes me whole..
@psalmist (109)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
i used to ask myself why i chose my husband now to be my lifetime partner,then eventualy i find the answer, he is the prepared for me. Of all people and with few boyfriends to choose from, i end up with him. Maybe i got a mistake for having him, but now i realized that he is the perfect match for me. He may not have posess the qualities i am looking for , but he has enough love to cover all shortcomings.He is god fearing and he is sometimes funny that makes our marriage last.
@dookie03 (578)
• United States
26 Jan 09
There's always going to be tough times and tougher times and then those times that you feel emotionally concerned in why you picked them. I mean i have those times alot considering some of my exes are some of my wifes friends. I mean it's weird but you see other people do better than yourself and it makes you wonder where you'd be today. Which friends you'd still have and which ones you would have lost elsewhere down the line of life. Yea i ask myself that all the time i guess.
@tiohwji (133)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
Lately, me and my gf are going through rough times. We fight everyday. I can say I'm not happy anymore but i still love her .. i think. I'm not happy anymore but i'm afraid to lose her. I don't know. All i can say is that I'm not happy with what's going on with us :(
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
26 Jan 09
I think some unhappiness or arguments could happen between two people anyway even they are really fit and kind to each other. But it's supposed to share happiness and sadness together. Sometimes couples do get some frustration of each other of some silly little things but it is really not a big deal if they really love each other.
@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
25 Jan 09
I don't know.
Sometimes I am happy, but he can be so irresponsible.
That makes me wonder why I ever wanted him in the first place.
But, I think we don't really choose who we love.
You belong together or you don't. (Could also be just for a short time, or a couple of years. All of a sudden you don't belong together anymore.)
It is a kind of chemistry I think.
The chemistry can also fade away and then it is time to move on.
But, of course we all hope that once we choose, the chemistry will stay.
Only time can answer that question.
Until then, I know I love him, but if the chemistry will last???
Take care.
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
25 Jan 09
I am so very happy with my boyfriend and we plan to marry next year. He's the best man I know -- kind and caring, handsome, understanding, responsible... The list goes on and on. I have no regrets about being with him. I know we feel so connected to each other and the relationship feels so right. We have been living together for almost two years and will soon be buying a house together.
I'm glad you have a great guy as well. Best wishes!
