True Love, Bad choices!!
@blackeyedpeas (445)
India
January 25, 2009 1:02am CST
Love hurts. But what happens when the hurt comes froma choice you made in picking a partner?
Well there was a friend of mine, she and her boyfriend dated for more than three years, they were in same city for an year and then they moved to different plces because of their jobs but even then their realtionship weathered the distance pretty well and by the time they got bck together, they got married. Everyone was so happy. He was a good looking guy, had a great job. Everyone said her, 'What a good catch'!! But after few days, things came crashing down, she came to know that he was a cocaine addict! He would be happy for minute and and sad the next, calm one minute and voilent the very second after. She was devestated. she is now waiting for the divorce. What ever happend was terrible.
But she is a really strong women and didnt sit and cry about it.
The whole eposide has made her stronger.
2 responses
@eisren_04 (14)
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
my experience was somehow the same with your friend. i had a bf for 3 yrs back in college, we had to be separated due to our internships....we didnt saw each other for only 3 months but when we finally met i knew something was already different...he was more attached now to her friend(also a friend of mine)whom he was with during our internships...i got jealous later cooled off....during our cool off stage only i learned that they were already going steady! What happened????Now they're already married!
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Well, I think that is bad thing about marriage.. Marriage couple always said that "You will never known his/her until you were living with each other already" and based on your story with your friend's life, I think they were really saying the truth.. 
I believe your friend cannot do anything since she was already married.. Of course, she didn't able to know the true personality and behavior of that guy since they were not living in one house, they not always together when they were still in a boy-girl relationship, and most of all a a guy/girl will never show his/her true self when she/he's not inside the house or when he/she is still winning the heart and trust of that person.. Of course, when your friend knew those things before they get married I'm sure that she will not going to marry that guy, right??
Well, making decisions isn't always come out into good thing but I hope that your friend were happy in some ways that she's married with that man.. 
I believe your friend cannot do anything since she was already married.. Of course, she didn't able to know the true personality and behavior of that guy since they were not living in one house, they not always together when they were still in a boy-girl relationship, and most of all a a guy/girl will never show his/her true self when she/he's not inside the house or when he/she is still winning the heart and trust of that person.. Of course, when your friend knew those things before they get married I'm sure that she will not going to marry that guy, right??
Well, making decisions isn't always come out into good thing but I hope that your friend were happy in some ways that she's married with that man.. 