whom u love most in your life
By happygill
@happygill (46)
India
January 26, 2009 3:07am CST
I want to know how many of you have that very special person for whom ur feelings never change.coz I am of very much pulsating nature nd my feelings always change ,sometimes I am very much crazy abt him nd sumtimes I jst ignore him.I never understand myself that y I do this.
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12 responses
@ashley2009 (85)
• United States
27 Jan 09
i know how you feel.the guy i love has a girlfriend right now but i dont care i will just ignore it and i still will love him even if he doesnt love me back. and thats what true love is all about, making the one you love happy, not yourself.
@shebeck (114)
• Jamaica
27 Jan 09
ashley2009
You are not being fair to yourself. Everyone wants to know that they are loved, it is unbalance if you love someone who don't love you back, there is gonna comes a time when you will feel left out. Love should be equal and balance. I believed also that for you there is gonna come a time when you will meet someone who adores you so much and the feeling for you will be great.
I am also guilty of not giving back love to my spouse and though he showered me with love at times I just dont feel the same. But I believe that it is important to be loved.
I am not judging you just sharing my thoughts ok, no heart feelings.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
28 Jan 09
I love my mom the most. Mom always treat me good, provide all the good stuff, always treat sister and I the first priority, there's no question about mom always is the best in the world.
@kiwibee (240)
• New Zealand
28 Jan 09
I decided when I was very young that when I broke up with someone, I should retain some love for them or it would negate the love I had to begin with. As a result, I still have warm feelings for everyone I've been involved with.
As for the person I love the most... love has many different facets. If I said my grandson (my oldest one, who lives with me, and with whom I fell in love when I first laid eyes on him at 20 minutes old) is at the top of the list, but so is my son, who is my friend and mentor, one of the wisest most patient people I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. Yes, I think they deserve equal place :-)
Sad to say I have yet to meet the love of my life. Obviously that is yet future as I am solo now and have been for almost three decades. I had a very "busy" time of it :-) until my mid thirties when I decided to live by Bible standards. I don't regret my self-imposed celibacy, in fact I respect myself because of it, and I do have faith that one day I will meet "Mr Right".
Meantime, as I said, I hold threads of love for those I loved in the past. It means a smile is never far from my face...
@starrywonder (625)
• United States
27 Jan 09
I understand. I love my family but there are times when they annoy me so much that its really fun to ignore them. My sisters are always bothering me and though there are times when we get along, most of the time i want to leave them on the side of the road somewhere. lol jk!
@shebeck (114)
• Jamaica
27 Jan 09
Hey happygill,
Just a week ago I was just about to post a similar question about my spouse. Sometimes I am madly in love with him and the next I just cannot stand him. Also there are times and I mean it is happening so often that I am beginning to wonder that I might not love him as I should. I kinda pretend at times and just try to be nice and not offend him, and I feel very bad about it. I did expressed this to him on about 2 occassions when we had a fight that I am not in love with him as I should and that we should be apart from each other for sometime to see where it takes us, if we love and misses each other then we will be together, but he fails to understand my feelings and say that I found someone else why I said it and he refused to let me go. I feel that I am trapped in this marriage and want him to go but he wont.
It is natural though to feel that this minute you are in love and the next you are not. I love my children the most and my parents.
@lovedude (4447)
• India
26 Jan 09
Specially I love my parents.. and it will never ends.. and yeah you are right in life many persons come.. but for sometime you will find him/her as your best buddy of the life and after particular period of time you only feel bore to receive their calls. but thats what the nature is.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
I think I know what is wrong with you, you are being a girl and there's nothing wrong with that. Cheers!!
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
..sure.. that's life.. and that's reality.. sometimes, we find that we are bored with the person and we just ignore him.. however, it doesn't mean that we don't love that person anymore.. I just don't know how you really feel because if you don't love him anymore, it is better to end the relationship because it is useless..
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
26 Jan 09
Hello happygill! I love most of my life are my family and my husband. Eversince, my feelings towards my family is constant. It will never change no matter what. I also love my husband unconditionally although like you, there are times that I ignored him and he doesn't know why sometimes. When I said sorry for ignoring him, he will just said that "it's ok, I understand...that's what women are"..hehehehe...
@Dewfunk (87)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 09
well there are some girls that i really liked, but these past 4 -5 years i had a big crush for this one girl, we were finally getting close not so long ago that is after 3 years of approach, unfortunately due to miss communication and long distance relationship, things don't work out..she left me for another man
@x0xpinkyx0x (673)
• Brazil
26 Jan 09
I can't choose only one person, because I love my mother unconditionally, and my kids, they are everything, they mean the world to me I could not leave without them. Now as for my boyfriend I love him, but When we have a fight I hate him, I hate him so much I want to punch him in the face. Then when the madness is gone I love him again. lol it's confusing but that's how it is for me.