Diffrence Between Girlfriend and Wife !!!
By aamitd_007
@aamitd_007 (95)
India
January 26, 2009 3:13am CST
Now a days we are moving to new traditions. Most of them are comming from US, UK or other developed countries. Some of them are verry good but regarding some i m confused. Like Marrage. There are many couples who are living together without marriage. And they don't have any problem on that. I think according to them no diffrence is there between Girlfriend and Wife. But our culture is totally diffrent from them. There should be diffrence between Girlfriend and Wife.
Isn't it?
4 responses
@panky99 (35)
• India
27 Jan 09
according to me the girl friend seems to be more hot and happening than the wife
and you like to pass more time with your girl friend tan with wife
@aamitd_007 (95)
• India
27 Jan 09
Thanks for your reply.If this is so then i don't think person having this thinking is much querious in getting married.Or not intrested in finding parter. i am lokking for long term effects. Though Girlfriend is hot but she can leave you on matter of money only but wife never.
@stoa2008 (62)
• United States
26 Jan 09
There's a difference between gf and wife in my opinion. A wife is someone that has been a girlfriend for a very long time and you have developed a committed relationship. To me, it's not about the stupid piece of paper or legal mumbo jumbo but about love and choosing someone you want to be with for the rest of your life!
@aamitd_007 (95)
• India
26 Jan 09
Rerally this is a very good thinking for this discussion. But is it necessary for this you have to leave together before marrage. I don't think so. You can judge any body by meeting together. You can understand any one in the period between engagement and marrage also. What do you think how much time it will take to understand some one. Now a second thing one point came in frount of us that is behaviour. Do you really think after becoming wife her behaviour cahnges from thinking woman to pig?
@aspnaren (314)
• India
26 Jan 09
Now this discussion made me remember a good old sms joke which is
girlfriend=prepaid phone,wife=postpaid phone,keep=coin box,etc...
But this has become common now in developing countries nowadays.Andit will not be good if this culture spreads to rest of the world
@aamitd_007 (95)
• India
26 Jan 09
Can you think about the effects of this culture on coming generations. Our generation skill of think and we have seen varions situations. We got some good,Holy thinkings from our previous generations but what about those who havent arrived yet in this world.When our children will tells us they want to leave with some one without getting married. What will you feel. As i don't want to listen that. Do you?
@x0xpinkyx0x (673)
• Brazil
26 Jan 09
The only difference between girlfriend and wife is the behavior, that goes for both man and woman. Because now days you don't even get married anymore, you just go live together as a married couple, and when you decide to split, there's no need for lawyers and money for the divorce, simple as that. And about the behavior is like when you have a girlfriend and you live in different houses, when you go out she's gonna be all nice to you, but once you move in together, things start to get rough because she's gonna want things her way and vice versa. Like when you go out she's all shy to eat in front of you, but after you're married she'll just pig out and don't even care if you're looking, people just get used to each other and let themselves go.
@aamitd_007 (95)
• India
26 Jan 09
Thanks for your reply. Do you really think it is just about behaviour. Many times your wife might be your best friend. You can share your feeling with her as your girl friend. And you can trust her as best chosen part of your life. But for all this you should realise her what is her place in your life. I my country most of the people belive in arrange marrage and still divorse rate is minimal as compair to other developed countries. Now if divorse posibility is minimal then no question of lawer and divorce money.If we are thinking about the divorece it means as per us we are going to be uncessfull in our most precious journey of life.
What is your view?
