A reminder of old In Law Drama

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In another discussion I explained how my FIL got on my last nerve this morning by calling my house and basically demanding to use our car since his has died. Well this reminds me of something that happened a couple years ago. Here's the story: My twins were 4 years old, and I'd just had my 4th child. Hubby and I only had 1 car we had to share, and it was a small car. It could not fit the 6 of us. If we had to go somewhere as a family I'd have to leave my oldest son (who was about 9) at home and squish 2 booster seats and an infant car seat in the back of our tiny car. And if I needed the car on a day hubby had to go to work I'd have to leave my son at home, drive half an hour to drop hubby off, half an hour back, then do it again in the evening to pick him up. Needless to say it was difficult on us. Well I had just gotten the twins into Head Start that year, it's a pre-K program. Unfortunatly, this program was self transport, they did not bus the children to and from school. Luckily it is only 5 blocks from us, so walking wasn't a huge issue on a nice day. But when head start began my baby was only 3 months old, and I'd have to walk with him and the twins regardless of the weather. It was very difficult in the rain and cold. I didn't even have a coat for the baby at first. Well, at this time my FIL had 2 cars, and only 1 of them was being used. MIL had broken her back, so could not drive at the time, and it didn't look as if she'd be getting better anytime soon (we actually thought she was dying at the time because she had many health issues). The car they were not using needed a bit of work, but it was slightly larger than the car we had, and the front seat was a bench seat, so you could squish 6 people into this car. So we asked FIL to give us this car, he said no. A few months later FIL went and bought himself a van, so now he had 3 cars, 2 of which were not being used. We asked again, he still said no! Here my family was struggling with one car we couldn't all fit into, and he had 3 cars he didn't need, but wouldn't give us one of them he never used. We would have paid to fix it up, and even told him it would be temporary until we could afford to buy a van, then we'd give him his car back, already fixed. He still said no! Fast forward another couple months, hubby ends up in a horrible accident and his car is totalled. Because the insurance was in FIL's name, he got the $2,000 from the insurance policy. He should have given that money to us so we could have purchased another vehicle. Instead he gives us one of the 2 cars sitting in his driveway, unfortunatly not the one we wanted. He gave us MIL's car, which is basically just as small as the car we had. We still could not fit all the children. We don't know what he ended up doing with our insuarance money, he claims he had to pay medical bills. So, a bit over a year later, after I'd had my 5th child, we finally were able to purchase my van. Hubby is still driving his mother's old car, but we now finally have 2 vehicles which we fit into comfortably. But can you believe FIL was actually upset when we purchased my van? It was our money we bought the van with, but when we got it, he actually said to us that he wanted MIL's car back!! It didn't matter that she didn't want it and neither of them would ever use it. He basically just didn't want us to have 2 vehicles. Now is it any wonder why I don't like this people?