You've Been Cheated on!Should you stay or Leave?
By Geisha69
@Geisha69 (13)
United States
January 26, 2009 11:38am CST
I think most of us have a predetermined answer that we blurt out when their loved one was cheating on us probably the the most popular answer may be, If i find out my man/girl is cheating on me i would be out so quickly he/she would't know where to look or i love my girl/man so i would forgive her/him if she/he make a mistake,EVERYONE'S HUMAN,for fact i know my answer would be closer to the first one how about yours?
5 responses
@tracie1758 (507)
• United States
26 Jan 09
I responded to your last discussion as well. LEAVE. If they cheat on you, then they don't love you. If they did they would never put you through that kind of pain.
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@marie_cehl (50)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Its also depends upon the situation if my guy would promise he will not do that again anymore. Who I am not to forgive and accept what mistakes he made. I will give him second chance but if he will do that again gee, I will call the Police
@angusthethird (515)
• United States
28 Jan 09
You can forgive without taking a person back. If he/she cheated on you once, he/she will probably do it again.
No second chances.
Burn me once, shame on you. Burn me twice, shame on me.
Has nothing to do with forgiveness. You can forgive and at the same time not want the relationship.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Hi,
if ever I'll be in this situation, first am going to settle the issue first with my partner, we will identify what cause him to cheat on me, then probably I can give him another chance.
@soundfreak22nd (475)
• Malaysia
26 Jan 09
i think i'd leave because if he/she would cheat, they'll cheat again next time. there's never a one time only.
@djemba (767)
• India
26 Jan 09
Well most of us would obviously prefer to leave your partner who has cheated on you but sometimes we try to keep it to a minimum by keeping and continuing with that person. It is important to understand that we only keep steady with them if we can genuinely forgive them, if his infidelity will keep nagging you then it will affect and end your relationship sooner or later. Then if you leave it is again understandable as the pain that you undergo is even fatal on your self-esteem as you find your self-value depreciated.
