how to keep your man inlove with you forever??????
By djcharlie
@djcharlie (18)
Philippines
January 26, 2009 6:31pm CST
last night i wanted to talk with my man about our relationship but i couldn't. asking him what is wrong or what is happening to us. it seems his not happy with me anymore. i was doubting him coz his becoming more suspicious and i dont want to feel this way. as he asleep i watch over him and ask myself how to keep him inlove with me "FOREVER"??? Please do help me...... am desperate....
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4 responses
@thaannointedone (36)
• United States
27 Jan 09
Hi first of all you need to have open communication because if there is none then all will be lost. Have you adn him had an argument or anything? Why do you feel he doesn't liek you anymore? Stop being scared to sit down and talk with him to see what he feels then you need to be open with yourselves if you want to continue this way. Being all balled up will just leave it with one of you walking out the door. COMMUNICATE. That what love is about communication and being honest with each other. Im suprised yall haven't thought of doing this. If he doesn't say anything you need to . Show him you are concerned. You can't make someone love you though. It will never happen that way...
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@ktosea (2026)
• China
27 Jan 09
I am with you,you can not control him to love you forever but you could do you best to be a good one of yourself.He may thinks about the same question as is of you are concerned.be faithful to him,always trying to talk things through when something unhappy happens....
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@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
I think the state of being in love is temporary while the act of loving is something that could last a lifetime. Cheers!!!
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@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
11 May 09
I agree. What a wise thing to say - been there, done that? =P
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
27 Jan 09
I don't think that we could put a spell on them or I would. We have to trust that we are enough. Be the best you can be without over doing it. Don't smother him, but guys like their mommmas because they think they are strong. They never see them cry and their momma babies them. This is what they like, but be careful not to over do it or he will think you are smothering him.
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@murugezh (273)
• India
27 Jan 09
Hi its very easy first talk to him freely ask him what makes him unhappy he need your help deeply. You make him out of his worries. First clear his sadness, may be he'll be not feeling well or something he want to talk to you but he is not ready with that one, may be he afraid about the happenings after he said that true to you, might be having something else with him don't disturb him much, leave him for a while silently he'll start speaking to you about it surely he'll share something.
