Falling love with best friend

I cannot really give you an advice whether which one is better for you and her.. When I was in my high school days, I also fall in love with my best friend.. Same as you, I'm also confused of what should I need to do.. But since I know that my best friend love me as his younger sister and not more than a friend, I had chose to stop loving him more than a friend and just keep my feelings forever.. I chose to be only his best friend and not wishing or hoping more than that.. Yes, it hurts but I think that a good thing I need to do since I know that if I want more than a friend there would be a possibility that I will lost him someday and since I don't want to lose him I decided to keep it forever.. Well, as what others always said that "we can't never hide any secrets in our life" so I didn't know that he knows already what i felt for him. And he just act as if he didn't know anything. We both pretending that everything is fine that there's no secrets between us for a couple of years. And when we both knew these things everything had changed. Our friendship had lost just like that.. Now, I already have a boyfriend and we were together for more than 4 years.. For more than 6 years, I lost already my best friend..Well, were communicating each other sometimes but when everytime we communicate or talk something it seems that we were not that close.. As if we had just met in just a few days.. For more than a year, I had no communications with him and I don't know if he is still alive or what is happening to him already.. He will be in my memories as someone who had been a big part in my life in my past.. Its up to you to decide whether which is heavier:being her best friend or being a lover?? If you think that you have a 100% possibility that she loves you the way you feel for her then go for it.. Fight the love that you have for her.. But if you think that she just love you more than a friend than maybe you need to just be remain as her friend.. Of course, as time goes on there's a lot of changes and possibilities might happen and maybe when the right time had come she will love you more than just a friend.. Think hard my friend.. Try to examine your relationship with each other so that you won't regret it in the future..

You can't help who you fall in love with, its nothing you can control. Try to find out if this girl has any similar feelings. If she does, try asking her out see where it takes you.