what is the reason why you do have friends in your neighborhood?

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Its good to have friends that live next to you but what are the reason why i don want to have friends because getting to know them can also make problems, the more you get to know them the more you become friends, there is always room for conflict, when you know someone you are comfortable with them. I didn't like many of them because of they were too loud, some of them would ride though blasting inappropriate music, spreading rumors with their friend which i dont like to happen to me also because i experience it before even though youre not close to them they are just curious about you, who i am, asking my maids about my personality, even your in laws. that why i don't like them to be friendly with them. and they laughing and make noise in the middle of the night sometimes fighting couple we heard throwing plates and hurting words including physical with each other which prevented you from going to sleep. that why i rather choose to stay at home and not to be friendly with them. If there's something that bothers with them, they won't hesitate to tell because you are close to each other. but when they didn't know you they may not mention it for fear of not knowing your reaction. we always keep in mind that anything that you tell to your neighbor could be leaked. never trust a neighbor with your personal information. another thing to consider is that you may always be seen as available, sometimes other people in your neighborhood may knock on your door or stop and talk to you for thirty minutes every time they see you and youre obliged to answer because they know you are home. but I say hello to them but i dont invite them over and dont get too close unless if you are ready for what could possibly arise.