Why aren't you going out with the person you like?
By Pleiades
@Pleiades (846)
United States
January 27, 2009 10:04pm CST
Is there someone out there that you like...more than just a friend? Does that other person know of your feelings? What about giving you two a shot? Or, would this be a perfect case of "let's just be friends"?
I'd be interrested in hearing some responses because you can't want to go out with someone if you're not friends first, right?
*Pleiades
3 responses
@02karen (172)
• United States
30 Jan 09
Pleiades - I'm not sure whether your girl or a guy but for an example, I'll put myself. Okay back when I was in middle school. Well I was in 7th grade and I had a major crush on this guy in my art class but he was an 8th grader. The rest of the students were 6th graders. Everyone thought we were dating but we weren't. I actually felt in love with him and he did too but neither of us wanted to say nothing because we were afraid to get turned down. We both went to different high schools. I spoke with him once on the cell but I should've asked for his number but I couldn't because no pen at that moment neither a cell so years past... my 2nd semester came for college. I saw him at the mall.:) (Excited)I was stalking him in which we exchange numbers ever since in time in a few days we started dating. We have 2 years and 10 days today but now were engaged. My fiance and I, talk about back when we were in middle school. I should've said something to him and we could've been dating ever since but we dont blame either or but he was about to sign up to the Air Force. It was a miracle and I'm glad I had another opportunity in which I stopped him in going. Don't let go of your true love because I was just lucky. I'm still with my fiance plus I'm super happy. Being friends with someone its a good thing but a girl can ask a guy out I dont see nothing bad about it but choose the right one.
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
28 Jan 09
you can't go out with a person who doesn't ask you out. It's not typical for women in our country to do that.
@digerati (286)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
hi pleia,
there is. but it could not matter anymore..
we will not be ok, after all..
dont lyk to gamble,
digerati