Do you sometimes blame your parents why they made u?

hi bulachika .. I do not blame my parets why they made me ... but i blame my parents on the person they made me to be (the person i grow up to be) Although what they did was to raise me to be a good, kind hearted woman but it made a lot of people to cheat and take advantage of me ... All their life, my parents were taken advantage of by other people .. now all their 4 kids grow up to be like them and we are being victimised by other people .. It made people like my in-laws do cruel things to me .. just because i was raised to respect others, feel the pain of others. I will never do that to my children, i will make sure they learn to defend their heart from being hurt by others .. On your issue, some parents do not know how to differentiate right and wrong, especially if their background are not strong .. they will do what they assume is right and help to mould you to be a better person in life .. so do not take it too personally cheers

hi friend, thanks for creating such type of discussion. i am somewhat agree with you my friend.hey friend, the parents are always do right thins for there children.so , does think that they are your enemy and always think bad of your.always respect your parents but i feel very bad when they will slap me or saying do unneccessary things.

I couldn't imagine blaming my mom for making me. I know she sees me as her pride and joy and one of the best things in her life (the other being my brother). I think no matter how some of the things they say can hurt, my parents love me more than anything and makes up for it.

That's funny. But you know what, I used to think that way when I was younger, way way way younger. I guess they were stressed out or something's bothering them that's why they tend to put the blame on someone else, and who is better to be blamed at but a kid who's on their way or something right? But these things get out of my head when they're in their good mood and they bring us things we want and all. They're also human. I know that they don't intend to hurt us or scold us. It's just they're being human ~ imperfections and all.

No, ever since I never blamed my parents why they made me..LOL!I always thank God that my parents brought me in this world and see the wonders of life. My parents never scolded me and never criticized me and never compared to other children. Well, there are parent who are really like that but they are not supposed to do that to their children because it can create a poor self-esteem to their children, it can also lower self-confidence and self-belongingness of the kids. No wonder there are children who seek attention and refuge to other groups especially groups that they feel they accepted them and respected them. Parents supposed to care and comfort their kids and not criticized them. Maybe your parents don't know their responsibilities in life as parents, so just forgive them and do not hold bad feelings for them, just pray it to God, just offer all your troubles and pains to almighty father, I know he won't forsake you.

At times i do blame them especially when i don't feel like myself. At times i just say to myself why was i born when i need to die someday. it would be preferable not to be born.