what will you do if your partner cheated on you?!
By abee1020
@abee1020 (116)
Philippines
January 27, 2009 11:16pm CST
well, my boyfriend cheated me a long time ago (so obviously he's my ex now) he's has another relationship with a woman and the worst part of it ,that girl got pregnant.. i love him but how can i fight my love if he himself is a big cheater!..
so what i did was to left him without any formal closure (i dont think that's neccessary) i recovered for just one week. darn, that's very immature right? our did it mean that im that serious in our relationship??we're too young that time. i'm 16 while he's 19.
i want to hear from the mature sides..
what will you do if your partner cheated on you?
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3 responses
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
I was also in the same situation like yours few years ago. My girlfriend left for Abu Dhabi but then she got pregnant from another guy. I was cheated big time! I was so mad at her that i call her names that's too degrading. I don't know, i know it's bad but it was brought about by my anger. I waited for her for more than a year but 3 months before we broke up, she was already pregnant. The bad part was, i learned about it from a friend. I was so devastated.
Right now, we're ok although i still can't forget what she has done to me. I fee like the guy took advantage of her being lonely and away from home. There's really no use to fight for it. I guess the best we can do is to move away from them and start a new life.
@Pleiades (846)
• United States
28 Jan 09
Abee...that was me about five years ago. My boyfriend cheated on me and got the other woman pregnant. Was I able to forgive him? Not at the time. In fact, I kicked him out of my life and had him alone to fend for himself. Honestly, that wasn't very nice of me, but he and I needed to grow up and live our own lives.
Now, we're still friends, although he says he still loves me. I love him, but out of compassion. Things just weren't meant to be with us.
*Pleiades
@abee1020 (116)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
funny that he can still say that he loves you!..
about us, we are neither friends nor enemy!.. he keeps on asking my contact number (after our broke up i changed my digits)
one more thing i wanna add. he got married with that girl and still he keeps on stalking.. what kind of boy is that?? cheating with her wife... i think he'll never change!
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
I would break up with him. I know it will hurt me but I wouldn't suffer as I've seen other people suffer because of bad relationship. I will take the pain and wait until time heals me. I think it would be low for anyone to cheat on their partner and I wouldn't want to spend another moment with a person who doesn't respect me.
Thanks for the response on my discussion!
