Have your views on love change?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
January 28, 2009 1:16am CST
When I was younger I was more idealistic and romantic. But as time flies and getting older and had more experiences. I started to realize what reality is. People go in and out of your life. Then I find way slowly. I aim for perfect, fall a little bit shorter and still cool. Have a nice day to all of you!
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4 responses
@crazygemini (129)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
im not into good looks even before i was younger. i still have the same qualifications. actually its not qualifications but character that im looking to a person that i will share my life with.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Hi crazygemini well all of us have this kind of ideal girl/boy. Well same with me, but it's not the beauty that counts a lot for me, it's how she will accept me for what I am, even the flaws, my mistakes cause I am just human. Anyway sorry for the late reply! You take care! Keep on smiling!
@crazygemini (129)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
its fine. have a great year.. and hope for us to find the right love
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Jan 09
My views on love haven't changed at all. I have had different experiences that ended in heartache, but I still feel the same about love. I still feel like love can conquer anything and that someone can be perfect for me through his flaws.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Hi rmuxagirl, Love and life is a journey we make. We keep on going even love sometimes is bitter sweet, but we learn to move on. Pain goes hand in hand with love, and it makes us strong and a better person with pain. Yes their is nothing wrong feeling love then not wanting love anymore. All of us deserves to be love, and be love too. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
28 Jan 09
Initially I used to take love very seriously but with the course of time I have realised that you cannot hold on to someone till eternity.People come and go but this you realise after many a heart breaks,now such emotions sound so futile to me that I have surrendered to my destiny and wait for the invietable to happen.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Hi sunita I think with all the heartaches I gone through, I charge it to experience, it help me learned so many things and capture my memories, and the pain gives me strength to go on with life. That love and life is a journey. Sometimes when you expect too much to work it out and could last forever, but this ends in a hurtful way too. Yes love just happens, and love also has it's ending. Nothing stays permanent in this world just yourself. But no regrets, it's better to love then not felt love at all. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
I do love what you have mentioned here... there is no permanent things in life and even people around us may come in and out of it. But you are trying to adopt and aim for perfection. KUDOS for a wise man like you!
And If you'll ask me.. My idea of love was totally changed after my heart was broken by the girl whom I LOVED more than myself... before i believed that the only girl I'll be inlove with would be the ONLY GIRL I'll have in my entire life as my WIFE... but that will not be happening anymore. :( Sad but its the reality.
It's hard for me to respond here for I could still feel the pain everytime I remember her. Sigh... anyway, nice topic as always. :)
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
WOw brow! Don't say anything, you might eat your word after a long time.Maybe I been hurt so many times too. But in due time it will heal. Life and love is a journey we make. Yes people change, but it's not the end of the world to say that. No man is an island. There is always second chances to fall in love again my brother. You deserve someone better, or she wasn't meant for you. God has always a reason, if now you don't understand maybe someday. Love just happens, yes, and you don't know when it will strike you again, even you avoid it. Let God handle it for you. Love is bitter sweet sometimes...but it helps us to understand life more. That is how I feel brow. My opinion. Time will tell again! Hey you take care! Miss yea brow! Sorry for the late reply! Just fixing a lot of things! I'll be watching you and pray for you! Keep on smiling! God be with us!
