will you go out with a person who like you but you donot like?
By yushulanfang
@yushulanfang (46)
China
January 28, 2009 4:21am CST
yesterday one of my high school classmates invest me to go out playing with him but i refused cause i donot like him and i know he want to make a relationship of love with me so i dont want to give him a wrong impression that i like him too if i go out with him. so that is the question if you know clearly he or she who could not be your boyfriend or girlfriend forever will you still go out with him??
4 responses
@yushulanfang (46)
• China
28 Jan 09
i do be scared to fall in a misapprehension to him and also dislike to handle the wrong relationship with person who falls in love with me but i dont like at all.
@sakthimaharai (154)
• India
21 Jul 10
Yes.sometime we can not avoid this kind of situations.We have to do it for others.That is mankind.:)
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
If I know that the person and I have something in common, I might try. If I'm not in a relationship, I might give the person who likes me a chance. No harm done anyway. It really depends for me. There are some guys I turned down because I feel it in my gut that it's a bad idea. There are other guys I don't like more than a friend but I have tried to spend time with them a bit. I make sure I don't send mix signals.
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
I'm sorry. What I mean is that there is a difference between liking someone only as a friend and liking someone more than a friend- like, "boyfriend material". 
For example, there's this guy I hang out with but my relationship with him is only until friendship. I like him but it's like, not enough to make him my boyfriend. "Just friends".
For example, there's this guy I hang out with but my relationship with him is only until friendship. I like him but it's like, not enough to make him my boyfriend. "Just friends". @yushulanfang (46)
• China
28 Jan 09
excuse me, what is meaning of "there are other guys i dont like more than a friend". does that mean you dont like them to be your friends?
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
28 Jan 09
absolutley not...If I'm not interested in someone I'm not going to date them..there would be no point in it and it would be unfair to them.
@yushulanfang (46)
• China
28 Jan 09
yeah i agree with you.i refused him that moment but i really donot know how to explain to him why i cannot go out with him with the precondition he know i am so dull at present and have nothing to do.
@Jlyn22 (204)
• United States
28 Jan 09
Thats sort of how things started with my fiance and I. I had no interest in him at all when we first met but he was nice so we became friends. He took me out all the time trying to get me to like him but it just wasnt working. Then one day I realized I should give him a chance cause he was a nice guy and actually cared about me and wasnt like the other guys Ive dated in the past. So I gave him a chance and we've been together for over a year now and are getting married in June.
As for you, do you like him in a friendship way or do you not like him at all? If you have a friendship with him I would go to be nice but if he makes a move or says something just be straight up with him and let him know you just want to be friends and thats it.
@yushulanfang (46)
• China
28 Jan 09
yeah you are right,but i donot like him at all and just make a common friendship with him.though he invite me to go out without any intention he said i still cannot believe him and also i donot want to mislead him.
