get married - be careful ?
@harishtemgire (61)
January 28, 2009 4:24am CST
last weekend i saw one Hindi (Language)movie "Kabhi alvida Na Kahena". & i was shocked, Stil I am not reached to the moral of movie. the story of film is based on extra marital affair. which is very very bad to socity. its realy diresctly affect on Husband & wife's relationship, so my gentle to all those who are planning for Married or already married. please be honestt with your partner. if you are not comfertable with him/her pleasediscuss dont take any wrong dicisions. ...Take care
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4 responses
@armystag (94)
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28 Jan 09
Hey Harish I agree with you. But I think you did not understood the moral of the movie, the moral of the movie was not extra marital affairs its the comfort zone of the two couples. They were not at all happy with their partners. If one is not comfortable with one another how can they be happy. Common its 21st Century and people should be mordernised and if they are not happy and still staying together they should be seperate and not struggle to make their realtionship live.
@aamitd_007 (95)
• India
28 Jan 09
Really as i don't think you are married. Once let you get married then we will see your openion. Because saying is easy than doing and i think all this is good in movies or it give new view if this happen in naighbour's house not in self.
@aamitd_007 (95)
• India
28 Jan 09
Hi Friends, This topic is on a hot issue on which many discussions going on. Now i think this should not happen in anybody's life. As impact of these things are verry dangeras. It impact a lot on family prestige and the life of family rather than individuals.
@haydeecorbilla (242)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
I am in a stage right now where I wanna get married but I would have to wait for my partner because he has not saved anything yet..Thanks for your advice.
@harishtemgire (61)
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28 Jan 09
heyyyy no need to worried, its challenge to you both. dont wait for any sily reasone. once you will both get married. you will start to earning & also you will save some money automaticaly. dont confused about this, take the decision & accept the challenges of life..you will enjopy this challnge.
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
28 Jan 09
i feel the movie say you have to give attention to your partner. after marraige if they start feeling alone then this can happen.
Now my question is if one gets married and understands that he/she has taken a wrong decision. - what the person will do?
Few will except and will stay together but few become rebel and now a days the numbers are high.
I have a friend who got married. his mom and his wife are always quarrelling and he i being pulled from both ends. Now he feels that he took a wrong decision to marry that girl. Now what they stay together but dont wish to see each others face.
@namitasingh_thakur (20)
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28 Jan 09
I personally feel any individual have the right to live their own life in their own way."Kabhie Alvida Na Kehna" is just a movie where everything gets sorted in the end.However reel life is completely different from the real life where one has to bear the consequences of one's own action. "Extra Marital" affair arises from the unhappy marriage..results into another unhappy situation and ends up with the humiliation or frustration or guilt feeling. But if any person wants to go through all this it's their choice.........
