What's the best way of showing that your sorry?

The best way of saying you are sorry to your lover or partner is to say it from the heart and mean it. When I did something wrong with my husband I always say sorry and hold his arms. But when I feel that he is not ready yet to accept my apologies then I wait for few hours about 5 hours to 10 then I don't say the word "sorry" anymore but I just hold his arms again. Asking to forgive me, in that way. Then he is good enough that no matter how hard my sin is he forgives me and love me again. That is the same thing I do when he is the one at fault. And we never end a day without fixing or settling whatever we have argued on that day. And until now after more than a year of being together I could say that we don't have major fights or arguments because we have respect for each other and honesty is always on top. Communication is very important so that your relationship will lasts.

Hi donsky! i think it is natural for us, women, to be domineering sometimes; however, it is not bad to ask for forgiveness from the person we hurt...on the other hand, it is not also easy to do this especially when we do not get positive reaction from the one we're sorry for...that's why it needs courage, love,and forgiveness when we need to humble down...good luck!^^

Just remember he needs to hear you say it... But like the person above suggested your actions will also speak to his heart, a lack of action and verbalization means that there is no forgiveness and that your dominance supersedes all else, you can't have a loving relationship when you are pushing your love off into the arms of another person. We all need Love, and mistakes happen but if it is not a mistake and there is no love then what is a guy to do? I think it is a pretty simple formula, and it works... You can certainly remove the wedge from your relationship or you can drive that wedge in deeper. The best relationships know that communication is the key to throwing that wedge away and binding yourself with him in a way that you can never be parted. Even on a bad day...

hi donsky, good and nice question.But sorry to say i don't have any experience how to express sorry to your b/f or g/f. I think if you love or he love you no need to say sorry.Silent speaks alot.no words to express as i think but your own way of express may be different. Try other friends suggestion will be good for you. Nice and loving day for you

Actions speak louder than words hun, give him a hug and snuggle your face into his chest. This will break the ice and open a space for you to talk comfortably without having to think about how to bring the hurtful memory back up again. Wait until he responds...something like bringing his arm around you or resting his cheek on your head. If the response is positive, then that is the time to say that you are sorry. Then tell him that you love him. Also ask if he can forgive you. Good luck hun, :) Hugs

i guess saying sorry is a good start and always be sincere if u have said it already. show him in every opportunity that u are sincere and wont hurt him anymore. but it really depends on how serious ur fault was. but of course, if he really loves you and trusts you enough, maybe a little peck on the cheeks would light him up and forget that you have done something to hurt him. and also to avoid situations like this , always think before you do something. ask yourself if he does this thing to me, what would i feel? have a nice day!

I know sometimes saying the exact words like "I'm sorry" is awkward. If you can't just hug him tightly, hug him for 30 seconds or more then when you're comfortable that's the time you gently say sorry.

Saying 'sorry' is good, but it means a lot more if you acknowledge what you did wrong. If it was something you said that hurt him, you should first tell him that you realize what you said; next, that you realize how hurtful it was to him; after that, tell him how badly you feel about hurting him; and lastly, you extend your apology to him. PS: Hugs make for great healing, but ask him if he'll let you hug him - some of my past boyfriends wouldn't even give me a second glance if they were especially mad at me. Asking for the hug shows that you respect the boundaries he's set while he's angry, and makes forgiveness a little easier. Also, in my experience, girls aren't the only ones who like to receive flowers. If you can afford it, a single white rose is a wonderful way to express your humility.

according to me direct face to face appolozise is the best way to show the person that you are feeling sorry and you want him to show all this if you will go to him and say it and sit in front of him untill and unless he says that its ok leave it trust me it works wonders. the best communication is to show it. enjoy mylotting and be happy trust me if you are happy the hole world will be in your feet.

woo,I learned from the guys' responses above,some are just constructive and useful for me.good discussion happy Mylott,everyone

In that case, you're definitely lucky donsky for having that man in your life who always tries to understand your mood swings:) not all men are like that...women neither hahaha! anyway, i'm glad to know that you've finally made things right. I wish you good luck!:)

if you really wanna tell her sorry so say sorry from your heart. if she really loves you she knows your feelings.

There is no best single way. The best advice I can give is to give him some time to brood and be upset for a day or two! Guys don't always respond to that immediate reaction of trying to apologize! Let him brood, and in some time, try to talk to him, sit him down and truly explain a full well thought out apology. Some home cooked cookies or some candy won't hurt either.