family
large families
parenting
running around like a headless chicken
scheduling
they double booked me
managing multiples
By wonttakelong
@wonttakelong (3555)
United States
January 28, 2009 6:36am CST
I dont mean taking care of twins or triplets although it could fall into this category. I am talking about tending to the hectic schedule of having more that a couple of children in school. I have 5 kids, all of which are in school now, and things tend to get a little chaotic sometimes. With one or two kids it was easy to manage your time. But the more kids you have in school the more you as a parent have to keep track of.
For example, I have basketball practice, basketball games, after school tutoring, book reports, science projects, english essays, fundraisers, speech therapy, and parent/teacher conferences for two schools and 5 kids. That is just the school activities. We arent even factoring in the church and social activities.
As if managing time wasnt hard enough there are always scheduling conflicts caused by others. Like the school messing up the conference schedule so that you have to try to be at two different conferences at the same time.
How do parents of large families manage their time?
Do you find it frustrating when scheduling conflicts arise?
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@littleone3 (2063)
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28 Jan 09
I know what you mean as a mother of five children myself it can get frustrating at times. I also have to do different things for two schools.
But my eldest children's school, which three of my children attend, do try to make sure that when we have parents evening or academic review days that all the appointments are on the same day. They are usually within fifteen minuets of each other.
We did have conflicting events just before Christmas it was my youngest two school fete and also my daughter was doing the district cross country for her school.
The way we got around it was my partner took my daughter to her race and i took our two youngest boys to the school fair so everyone was happy.
My daughter also does judo and athletics outside of school.
So sometimes she has to miss out on school matches or rehearsals as she does football,netball, basketball and drama at after school club.
@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
28 Jan 09
That should make things a little easier having the other parent there to help
My husband works nights and is often unable to help out with school functions
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@bbaychic (45)
• United States
28 Jan 09
WOW! You are definitely a super mom. Just surviving this long is awesome...a few scheduling conflicts seems like small potatoes compared to the laundry! Hee hee. I only have one child myself so far, so I don't have much exp. w/ schedules. But I know you can do it, you gave birth to them all and nothing can compare with childbirth. UGH! :D The worst and also the greatest experience of my life.
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@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
28 Jan 09
LOL thanks
I wouldnt exactly call myself supermom LOL
laundry.....UGH!!!!
I had 4 in diapers at the same time
i was told that it will get easier as they get older
i am still waiting LOL
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