A Family in crisis

United States
January 28, 2009 12:58pm CST
I have a close friend that is a part of a family in crises. They were a blended family for about 20 yrs. she caught him cheating on her and tried to stick it out and he never even tried to cut ties with the other woman. They were fighting and she had to get a restraining order so that he couldn't threaten her anymore. Following all this she filed for divorce and they both have attorneys. Since this she has had her convertible top slashed, cable lines cut and just a bunch of stuff since he moved out. In the mean time her 2 of her adult kids moved home and they are in their early 20's they have been even more stress instead of comfort.Her daughter was engaged and called it off and moved home, she has always had some mental issues. She has been hospitalized several times in the past few months and they never keep her long enough. For some reason she is taking everything out on her mother, just last night the ambulance and police had to come to the house because she was threatning and attacking her mom and brother when he tried to stop her. She is threatning to kill her mom and herself. It is just quite complicated since she has tried to be on medicines and stuff but now her family believes that the mom is in danger, should she get a restraining order? She dosen't want to because its her daughter but I think she may hurt her, and what can the rest of the family do to help? As a final blow she talked to her step dad and told him that her mom had guys staying at the house and they did drugs and stuff, they are in a court battle over money so can this hurt her? It is a huge mess any ideas? Is there a way she can be committed without her consent since she is a risk to herself and others??
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
28 Jan 09
Wow, do I feel for this woman. I hope she's reported all the vandolism to her property. I'd set up a video recorder and try to catch some thing on tape or get motion detectors around her house that activate flood lights. As for the daughter, she's been hospitalized before. Next time she throws a fit she needs to call 911. Since she has mental issues and she is threatening, she can be transported by the police straight to an emergency room or mental hospital for evaluation. I'd call the local police departmennt and mental hosptal and ask what she needs to do to get her committed. Sometimes you have to petition a judge to have her put into mental institute. She needs to makes some calls and find out her next plan, but she needs to do something because her daughter isn't mentally right.
• United States
28 Jan 09
Thanks for the advise we will have to look into a few things.