Have you forgiven your partner for having an affair?

@akangirl (2436)
India
January 28, 2009 6:06pm CST
Relationships are very complex. If the person we love haves an affair with someone , it deeply hurts us.Have you forgiven him/her? Do you still trust him/her?
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jammyt
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
Hubby hasn't done this to me.. and I hope he never does. Anyway, it would really depend on the "extent" of the affair. I can't say I Will NEVER forgive him becauseI might just eat my words. If I DO forgive him, the trust will have to come back. No use of forgiving him if I wont trust him again.
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akangirl
@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jan 09
Even if we forgive him but how hard we try but are unable to trust him. That's where when relationships start turning sour.
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bamiofar
@bamiofar (104)
• United States
29 Jan 09
3 times! yes 3 times that's happened to me. Sorry but I've never been able to get over it. Once burnt, always burnt! then you must move on :?)
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akangirl
@akangirl (2436)
• India
30 Jan 09
That's sad but why did it happened thrice to you? Maybe you are choosing a wrong partner
maruti16
@maruti16 (36)
• India
2 Feb 09
Love is like knife.It can stab the heart or it can carve wounderful images into the soul that always last for a lfetime.Love is not destrroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.It is a life time venture.
Tinna_He
@Tinna_He (300)
• China
4 Feb 09
i can't forgive my partner for having an affair.i can ignore how many girfriend he had before we were getting together.But now i can't forgive if he had an affair.If he feel dissatisfied,he can tell me.i can improve it.he should have responsibility for our marriage.
nympha687
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
30 Jan 09
Forgiving and trusting are two different issues. I have forgiven him but I didn't get back with him.
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