What do you think about extra marriatal affair?

Hi punmsharma, I agree with you and think that it has a harmful affect on our lives in general. Children need a home where both parents are honest with each other, they feel safe that way. It will also affect them when they grow up. Many people who have extra marital affairs feel guilty about it, even though they are doing it. Such feelings often cause health problems as well. Blessings.

Gee, I dont want this happen to me and my future husband. Although I know that there is no perfect relationship and Im hoping that I will not suffer for this.

My thought is, "if you feel you need to have an affair, it is time to either end the relationship or seek outside help so the relationship can be mended before anything bad happens." I've seen this happen so many times and, in the situations I've seen, it never ended well. I've heard of this issue happening and the relationship remained intact, but they never truly trusted each other the same way again.

I wouldnt blame TV! To be honest I think some people just do not have the ability to be faithful no matter how much they love someone. I think we all find temptations on our paths along the way its just some have the willpower to say no and some dont but that doesnt obviously make it right to have an affair. I could never do that to my partner I could not hurt him like that so even it temptation was to come my way I wouldnt do it because how I feel about him gives me the willpower to say no.

If we just value our promises to our spouse at the time that we are married then I guess we won't have a hard time to say no to temptation.