Are you capable of loving just one person forever?
By wraithhime
@wraithhime (75)
Philippines
January 29, 2009 7:35am CST
Monogamy is not the latest and coolest fashion these days, but I believe there is only one person for each of us in a certain lifetime.
What do you think?
4 responses
@Patzi_md (129)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
loving a peron forever is a choice. We love a person not for what he is or what he have but we love a person for who he is. We are capable of loving one person forever but it will all depend on us, even though he/she can't love us back. I believe that we could only have one great love in a lifetime no matter what had happened in the relationship in which your one great love might be your husband/wife, or be just friends forever.
@explorations (1712)
• United States
29 Jan 09
I agree with this opinion. When I'm in a relationship, I'm dedicated to JUST that person and can't understand how others can't do this. That's just how I operate, though. I've met plenty of people who think my dedication is weird and they can't understand how I'm not interested in more than one person. So, it looks like it's an individual and personal thing.
@wraithhime (75)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
true. its never the same anymore, you cant just love somebody and say im still loyal to the other one.
things dont just go that way.
and if you keep on saying there is still someone out there way better, chances are you cant commit, you'll end up always changing partners, until you see yourself getting old and wont know what you really are looking for.
you wont learn how to accept and be fulfilled.
well i guess, people who are still searching havent found real love yet.
if you find it, you dont want to loose it, ever.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
29 Jan 09
I think that there is only one PERFECT match/true intimate SOUL MATE for each of us BUT I also believe that we are very capable of loving more than one person..Especially considering that not all ppl find their true soul mate..I was fortunate to have found mine and though due to circumstances and how both our lives have gone etc its a rough go at times..BUT I very much love more than just him....again though I'm fortunate enough to have both the men I love in my life..
@tanmoykarmakar (11)
• India
29 Jan 09
if a person is really true... then he/she needs to confess tht its not possible...might be we dont feel it...or we dont want to feel it