If my bf dont want to have love making with me? Is he a gay?

"he is just not that into you" that's all. time to move on.

hello marie. i know this a hell of a situation. you must going through a lot. i don't want to say anything negative like he ain't interested in you. that's gonaa increase your tension to a large extent. so now, let's forget about the bad things. think in a positive way to find a solution and have a brave heart to speak to him openely about you feeling that he is gay. it's not necessary that he has to be gay and tht's why hez not showing any intrest. there could be some other reason behind it. it could be somehting like it's his first time and hez scared if he'll be able to do his part well or may be he thinks he wont be able to satisfy you. it could also be that hez not 100 percent sure if your realtion will workout well till the end and may be he doesn't want to have it unless hez sure about it coz he doesn't want you think that he used you. the reasons are endless dear. but have a brave heart, speak to him and don't over react to naything he says. make him understand how muche he means to you. convince him that you like him the way he is. good luck on this dear :) have a nice day :)

I just read your other discussion about him flirty textmessaging. I'll bet he's seeing someone else. I think you should move on from this one. It doesn't sound like you are very happy.

Very hard to answer this one sincerely without infringing a LOT of myLot rules :P but nevertheless, let us try. in short, here is your main problem: http://share.triangle.com/sites/share-uda.triangle.com/files/images/U18GirlsFinalists.preview.jpg this is your competition. now, as a guy, I simply must speak for the right of any man out there to lose interest, at any time, and seek new prey to hunt. if this happened to you, please do not blame your man, it is just a result of the free market, free will and freedom of choice. Options and solutions are always available, please get to work as soon as you find one you like, and start building a better life and better future. Cheers

If ur bf don't want to make love ? Hey there, personally speaking i think that would be jumping to conclusions a bit to say that ur bf is gay just b/c he isn't making love. Maybe you need to do a few things with him to help get him in the mood. Then too he might be saving himself for marriage. I think you might need to talk with him more and ask him what is it that he is expecting of you. Good luck! Happy Mylotting!

No, maybe he has the virtue of protecting your future from unplanned pregnancy. He subtly proves that he ain't no breeder. He's simply your BF who loves you as you are :) He wants to make sure that you're the one for him before he can consummate his love for you. IMO Just my .02 cents