Hes a cheat?
By thesoph
@thesoph (57)
January 29, 2009 9:38am CST
My boyfriend has added this girl on his msn that he used to talk to, he said he didnt add her, and said i did! He has now changed his addie for me cuz he said he doesnt want anything to do with her, but he wont let me see his account, i feel so low, and i cant take the amount of rubbish i get from him, my last boyfriend used to hit me, ive had enough of bad relationships.
Even thou he does all this hes gave me the best year of my life, and i love him, but i cant see light anymore.
Can anyone see any light in this? Please help!
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2 responses
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 09
Maybe he is not a cheater. It may be a man's thing to have someone he really cares about while at the same time having someone else with whom he shares certain secrets.
I had friends who were like your boyfriend. I asked them about this matter. The basic thing was they did not want to hurt the feelings of their girlfriend or fiancee. So the other (unfortunate) girls were sort of a testing ground. They would say things to see what reaction they woukd get. If favourable the same thing would be said to their girlfriend.
If he starts to reduce his attention to you then it is time to start worrying about the situation. Otherwise consider yourself lucky because he is trying not to hurt your feelings On the other hand I may be wrong, so you may have to trust your heart.
all the best,
rosdimy
rosdimy
@uchiha_sasuke (51)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
you're acting like and idiot, stop the paranoia and get over yourself. You're nagging the guy and he'll dump you if you continue to act like that.
