Would you choose to love someone married or your ex who still loves you dearly?

Dear pulangpluma, your first choice should be out of the question, and here´s why, that person when he/she got married probably told the spouse that they were getting married because of love and most likely promised an ever lasting relationship which he/she didn´t keep or decided to break when you showed up in the picture, I´m not saying you are responsible for this but this person is just looling an excuse to leave the spouse and you´re it, and I´m sorry to tell you but you will be the victim again in a near future because he/she will do that to you once the he/she finds someone who offers something different, this kind of people don´t want to settle and always looking for new adventures, I´m not trying to be mean and do not take anything personal because I don´t know but I´ve seen this kind of behaviour before and they follow a pattern, I would definately suggest you to get back with your ex who still REALLY loves you, you can´t call love what that married person feels for you, can you?

I used to get involved with married women all the time when I was younger. I got tired of having to worry about getting caught by their husbands, so I quit doing that sort of thing. At least if your ex was single, you wouldn't have to worry about getting caught and having to deal with that...