Reasons why my husband look at other women

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There was a thread today that I responded on about men looking at other women while they are on a date or when they are with their wives/girlfriends. I thought I'd ask my husband since I also became mad this morning because of the same reason. And this is what he told me. He said, it's just like window shopping. It doesn't mean that when he looked at something from a store, he already likes it and wants to buy it. He said that looking at someone who maybe happens to be attractive does not mean anything, and sometimes he just can't help it. He's just like that, and I noticed that too that when we are walking in malls, he has the habit of looking at people in the face, those who walks past us. I don't do that at all because I thought, why should I look, I don't care. But he told me, it sometimes help to look on people who is around you so you would know what's happening and who's doing what. Maybe a girl beside you is already pickpocketing, or maybe has skin disease, it is useful that you know how the people look like, in case. I had a good laugh while we were conversing this but he actually made sense. He also told me to make it a habit to look at people especially those taxi drivers or jeepney drivers where I ride because my life depends on them when I ride on their vehicle. A pessimistic side of me wants to think that my husband is just telling me these just to appease my anger, but I thought, he's right. I should not waste my time getting mad for such a small thing, because he doesn't actually STARE at those girls, he just look at them. But I still like the way he cuddles me to appease my anger, so I thought, I'll be mad at him again if I see him look at other women the next time