Can you marry a girl who can't do housework?
By sunny7758521
@sunny7758521 (339)
China
8 responses
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
31 Jan 09
sure i will.But in some conditions. I want that the women to be equal with me, but, i cook, and she can do something else. It`s verry fun when you make all the things around the house, with your girl. It could be verry fun if she it`s like you, and you`ll be more together,because nowadays couple don`t have enought time to stay together, just because of the money, because if you don`t work to have all that you need, the relation will go down.
@sunny7758521 (339)
• China
31 Jan 09
It is as my hubby said. He always if he cooks the meals, I should sweep the floor, he will find the mental balance. yup, if we are both at home, we need to share the housework.
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@sunny7758521 (339)
• China
1 Feb 09
Thank you for your comment. Happy doing housework and take care of yourself.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
30 Jan 09
I think the real issue here is whether she actually CAN'T or simply just WON'T. CAN'T is one thing...WON'T is entirely something different...If she is physically unable, we could come up with a way to get it done. If she simply WON'T do it because she just doesn't want to, that is totally unacceptable...
@sunny7758521 (339)
• China
31 Jan 09
I have a classmate, his girlfriend is very beautiful. But when they got married he found that his wife always dresses up herself but can't do any housework. He is so surprised and unacceptable.
@sunny7758521 (339)
• China
1 Feb 09
Hi, goldeneagle. You are right. I'll support you to the hilt. As the parents we need to help the teenagers learn housework even something they can do but not properly. We should lead them to know how to live. Have a great day, my friend!
@sunny7758521 (339)
• China
31 Jan 09
In my country, many people don't think so. They like a girl who is very helpful at home. In the traditional Chinese way of seeing things, a man usually works outside and a woman does the housework. If the woman can't do house work the man needs to do both outside and inside work.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
2 Feb 09
Coming from my boyfriend....Probably not, It should be something shared between the both of you and not just one person, so if she can't pull her weight then no.
@sunny7758521 (339)
• China
2 Feb 09
Thank you very much that you can share your boyfriend's view here. Yes, housework shouldn't be just do by one person, if like that he or she will have a heavy burden and get tired and boring. May you and your family be well!
@aspnaren (314)
• India
30 Jan 09
yes i will ,
Because I am a person who wants to give equal rights to women.And women are not our servants to make all our household works.I will give her oppurtunity to do whatever she likes.Finally, I dont want my wife to be a servant,I wants her to be my wife.
@sunny7758521 (339)
• China
31 Jan 09
Hi,aspnaren. she is very happy to be your wife. You must love her very much and you have to employ a servant at least if don't want to do housework.
@rmorefield (941)
• United States
31 Jan 09
My question to you is, why wouldn't you marry a girl who can't/won't do housework? Women marry men who are like that everyday. In my last relationship, I was the one who worked 70 hours a week, and he was the one who took care of the house. I'm not saying that I didn't help out. I'm just saying that he did most of it. I was willing to do it all for a while, then I realized that I shouldn't have to when he was sitting on his duff all day playing his Playstation. Wasn't I working enough??
@sunny7758521 (339)
• China
31 Jan 09
Hi, dear rmorefield! I know you are an able lady. I mean that the man works outside, the woman is at home but she can't do housework. If you are a man and you have no servant, can't you stand her?
@daliaj (5674)
• India
24 Feb 10
Oh, no. I don't marry a girl who is not ready to do any house work. Resturants are getting very expensive these days and it is not possible to eat from out all the time. Also, the outside food is not healthy. They add masalas for good taste and smell, which is not good for our health. I am not ready to cook for my wife, the whole life. No way my friend.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
24 Feb 10
personally,I don't think doing housework is a work for man or woman specially,as I like cooking myself for I can make dish which I like to eat,that would not be the reason for me to marry a girl whether she can do housework.
