How many ex's do you have?

@djemba (767)
India
January 30, 2009 9:57am CST
In my case I think its beginners luck, because with my first girl I have been steady for more than a year. How many break-up's or ex's do you have and do you still keep in touch?
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• Philippines
30 Jan 09
hi there, djemba.. stay faithful and take good care of her because until you are married, you can never be sure if the two of you are meant to stay together. guard her heart and purity because she could be someone else's wife someday. :) as for me, i have 10 ex's of which 3 are break-up's. the rest are just 'flings,' not really one-night-stands but short-lived 'test' relationships where we never had any formal courtship, agreement nor break-up. if i could turn back time, i would've just waited for the right guy instead. but i'm happy now because i have peace in my heart knowing that God has forgiven all my mistakes in the past.. happy myLotting! :)
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• Ireland
6 Feb 09
I think that the best thing about love is that if ever it didn't turn out right for both of you, there's someone out there who is right for you. and falling in love again is the best thing that will come out of falling out of love.
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@djemba (767)
• India
30 Jan 09
Gee dreamleaper, thanks a lot for the heads up. I am sure you are right on the fact that no relationship is successful until it ends in marriage. I will keep what you said in my mind. Thanks a lot for your wise response.
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• United States
31 Jan 09
im 21 and i had 2 major relationships. my first was just a high school fling but my second was a more serious relationship. we were together for 3 years and we didn't work out for a reason and i know that. but it's hard to let go of something that you had for so long. he has a mark on my heart and always will. he still tries to keep in touch with me but everyone tells me to break all ties with him because he is not good for me and the guy im with now makes me very happy. the first relationship, we talk but that's because we realized that we were better friends then being together. im happy now and so are they...to a point.
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@djemba (767)
• India
31 Jan 09
I see, so you are one of them who are still friends with ex.
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
As for me, I had 5 ex's. The longest relationship that I've been with is my relationship right now. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs.
@djemba (767)
• India
30 Jan 09
What you said will imply your earlier partners were with you for only a few months, anyways best of luck on your current relationship. I hope it remains happy and fruitful.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
I had 6 exes. The hardest part is the breaking up especially if you're the one who's going to initiate it. I had this girlfriend whom i need to break up because i don't see the relationship going anywhere. I broke up with her at our school campus. She cried and i felt so guilty that time that i wished i didn't do it. She called me names like i'm leather-faced. I can't do a thing, i just accepted everything she has told me. I do keep in touch with my other exes though it's not deliberate. Sometimes i see them on my yahoo messenger list then they would say hi then i'd say hi to back. Nothing really personal unlike before.
@djemba (767)
• India
30 Jan 09
Hmm...I can see that the your girlfriend must be really pissed off at you. Actually, you could have thought of a better place to break-up personally.
• Ireland
6 Feb 09
I'd say I'm lucky same as you are because I married my first boyfriend which is now my husband. We now have a beautiful son. I'd say you have a wonderful relationship with this girl if you're together for a year now. Congratulations on that. Stay happy and hope you'll both end up together. Have a nice day!
@jasmin69k (103)
• Australia
6 Feb 09
hmm..i have this 12 ex's in my life but i had only one that i used to communicate..sad to say right now am zero..lol
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
well, i don't keep in touch with my 4 exes. it is better that way.