losing my temper
By mark_mahlon
@mark_mahlon (118)
Philippines
January 30, 2009 11:01am CST
it is somewhat annoying to hear loud sounds when you already want to take a rest and to be peaceful...but what if it comes from your neighbors. what is the best way to address this issue regarding on their loud music to be more specific?
it has been habitual to my neighbors to play loud music and im slowly losing my temper.kindly help me on this.thanks
3 responses
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
30 Jan 09
each town has a variance when loud sounds mat be heard usually 7am to 11pm according on where you live just call the town hall and find out then report them but remember you have to live there. i had a condo and this guy had his bass blasting all nite i asked to keep it low late at nite that didn't work so i reported him he no longer lives there.i now live in the florida boonies where the only thing i hear are birds ,fish jumpin, owl's and the local gator grunting during season, nice ,very nice. plus the town bangs up at 9 except for the local denny's crap trap but thats 20 miles away. o.k. i'm rattleing on so i'm a goin.
@mark_mahlon (118)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
i have already talked to them once but they were only able to keep their music low for a few days and it is back again.in fact, i was awaken by their singing this morning.instead of sleeping soundly since it is weekend here, i cannot.i dont want to start any fight with them but bringing up this cse to someone who could mediate between us might be considered.good thing that you were able to report it and now you are living away from the hustle and bustles of the city.
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
31 Jan 09
thsst's why when i buy a house or condo somewhere i try to go by myself on a weekend on and off to see what happens then, that's usually party time. ya know the older i get the less crap i put up with, no barganing anymore, but sometimes you get stuck with some ignorant ashole you just can't reason with. good luck. you got a local cosa nostra in town. problem solved.
@muru1950 (963)
• India
30 Jan 09
Hi mark_mahlon
This is a problem I also face sometimes.
I would explain my neighbors politely about the disturbances.Mostly they would listen to it but for few days only.Again you have to remind them.
Unless until they realize themselves.
In my country,I can't do nothing more than that.
I have been in U.S. in my daughters house.There nobody makes noises that can be
heard outside their house.Many times you will wonder whether someone lives in the
adjacent house or not.
Happy mylotting
@mark_mahlon (118)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
thanks...ur right, they would listen and pay attention but they will go back to their old ways.it is hard to remind them always and wait for them to realize that they are not doing any good.it would probably take months. i might bring up this matter or report this.i just don't like karaoke singing all day long and it bleeds my ears.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
14 Mar 09
Hi,
There are Two ways ,according to me:-
1)Tell Ur neighbours politely that Uneed their co-operation(during time such & such which is Ur Rest time,if they can compromise music with less sound).
2)From Ur side,take all precautions(closing all possible entry of Loud-sound),even Ur ears(with cotton Plug).
U can also gather opinions of other neigbours(not the Music-lovers?)reg the loud music & put pressure on them Jointly(if they are giving deaf ears to Ur request).
=lahiri,Kolkata,india.
