Soulmate, Are you a believer?

I am a believer. I believe you know you've found your soulmate when you understand why you've always heard people say when you know you know. You've found your soulmate when your love is conditionless and because of that, strong enough to survive anything.

i used to be a believer in the idea of soulmates until i got married and got a taste of real life. i think my original belief stemmed from the fact that i grew up in a world filled with books and literary magic. i expected to find a soulmate but i guess reality is far different from how it is portrayed in literature. i still believe in soulmates but i suppose not everyone gets the chance to meet one and i think that waiting for a soulmate when there is someone else willing to lay his life on the line for you is not a good idea. in my case, i found a husband who may or may not be my soulmate but who i have decided will be my life mate. it's a conscious decision for me

..It is hard to determine if the person you fell in love with is your real life partner.. For me, it is how we work things out in a relationship that will make our boyfriend or girlfriend our real life partner.. Of both parties decided to make the relationship work, then definitely, they are for each other.. When I fell inlove, I overlook the weaknesses of my boyfriend.. but when we got married, I realize those weaknesses affects our relationship.. and its hard to adjust.. But that's reality.. when we are inlove, we only see things which are good and we never look at the mistakes and weaknesses of our partner.. that's why it is important that before entering into marriage, you should accept the person as he/she is.. most of the time, we have expectations that are not met by our partner.. we have to be ready to accept those..