Kicking out roomate

I would simply give him a WRITTEN 30-day moving notice. (Don't forget to keep a copy for yourself) You don't have to give a specific reason why. But if he asks you, then just tell him what you told us. Or you can tell him that it was only supposed to be a short-term thing, and you and your husband really need a little privacy. It doesn't sound like he's a very good friend, so I wouldn't be worried about making him angry. Just give him the notice. If he's still in your house on day 31 or 32, simply have him removed.

I would just be brutally honest, actually. Tell him "This arrangement is not working out for us any longer so you have until (give him a day of the week or whenever the time is up that he has already paid for) to move out." Bottom line, he's living in your house and I assume you have no formal agreement in writing or anything like that? You just offered because he was someone your husband worked with? He has no actual claim to being there except for whatever time he has paid for and you've accepted the cash. In the meantime, do not drive him anywhere. You don't want to make it any easier for him to want to stay. His $200 a month doesn't include a chauffeur and remind him that, while he is living in your house, he is expected to pull his weight like anyone else. I wish you luck because he sounds like a real problem and, until you quite literally evict him, I don't think he'll go of his own free will.