Are you joyfully single?

@becdmd (704)
Philippines
January 31, 2009 1:47am CST
I am enjoying being single, I always tell to myself, good things come for those who wait patiently for the right one, even if there are times that I feel left out because almost all of my friends have good relationships, I do not lose hope and I know there a lot of singles out there who live their lives to the fullest. Do feel your better off alone or do you long for relationship but it seems like no one is knocking on your door? how do you cope up with your situation?
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@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
i had been single almost half of my life. so i am used to the situation of being single. i am FREE...totally FREE to do whatever what i wanna do in my life without the permission of someone else, i can hang out even at the very late nights together with some friends and ladies as well.but i don't mind being with someone. but not right now! as far as i am concerned i am still taken very much taken. here are some guidelines for everyone are single; 1 Always be happy. Don't be rude and unkind, do not make degrading remarks about others, don't be quick to find fault in other people. Develop a love for other people and remember to smile at everyone you encounter. Step 2 Remember those precious 24 hours in a day are all yours. They are yours to use as you please because there is nobody to check on you, nobody to rush home to and cook for. After work, your time is yours. Relax, pamper yourself, enjoy a soothing cup of tea, call a friend for a much needed gab fest. Step 3 Host a special dinner once a month. Invite the special people in your life and enjoy their company. Remind them how much they mean to you. Treasure every moment. Step 4 Have a hobby. Go out with your friends, join a club, go out for a cycle ride, hiking, dancing classes, whatever you like. Step 5 Be positive. Do not gossip or criticize. Always have nice things to say about others, even if you have to force yourself. Treasure every second, every heartbeat. Treasure yourself. hope that it works! LOVE YOURSELF FIRST..that's the major rule.
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@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
very well said...thanks for the good advice. Cheers!!!
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I'm single too but i'm not sure if i can say i'm joyfully single. I think it's a cycle. Sometimes when i'm in a relationship, kind of miss being single. And when i'm single, i miss being in a relationship. I'm not losing hope either but i'm already 29 and i feel that i need to get a relationship now to get to know more about her then maybe decide to marry. I do have lots of freedom when i'm single than when i'm in a relationship but i do get tired of it. How come you're single? You're quite attractive.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
haha thanks! I don't know, maybe it's not the right time...(^_^)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Whoever tries to get her will go with me first! Lol
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
LoL!(^_^)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
Before, I was desperate to have a bf, and ended myself to a not so worthy bf. But right now, being single for 3 years is not bad at all. I have learned to appreciate myself more and to have more time for myself. And yes, I have truly joyfully single! Although one day, I'd like to meet my other half, and get married. But at the moment, I'd want to enjoy my time of being single, cause very soon, I'm sure I won't be enjoying things of what I'm doing right now when I get myself committed. I just want to make most my single life for the meantime.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
yep that's right! enjoy and have fun...so that later on you won't have any regrets when you come to a point of no return like getting married.(^_^)
@Nar_87 (181)
• Mongolia
1 Feb 09
Well, I have recently got out of a relationship! Being single is great when it comes to spending time for yourself, I guess. So, yeah, I am better off single :)